Frivolous Friday – Photo-bombing and Other Gotchas

I wonder if photo-bomb is in the dictionary yet? Is selfie? You can certainly locate these and many other new terms in the world-wide urban dictionary online. Do you recall the first time you heard a new term and you wondered what in the heck does that mean? I have to say that occasionally my mind has stumbled into the gutter upon my first encounter with a new term. The first time I heard “selfie” for example, was when President Obama was doing this with one of the former first ladies (as I recall) and they were giggling. It was a big news-maker. I studied the picture of them and wondered what in the heck was going on that made them laugh like that during a formal event—was it a funeral? I knew it must be naughty. Well, now we all know what a selfie is and the vast majority of us have even participated in one or many of them.

The photo bomb is another interesting term for a fun activity. This means jumping into or somehow finding yourself in someone else’s photograph. It’s the appearance of someone unexpected in a photo. It happened to me twice while traveling with gal friends. A man moved into the photo for the fun of it. Made us laugh and we have a humorous keepsake with a story behind it.

I took this picture of a pretty dog one day and didn’t realize until later that his buddy also wanted to be in the shot. Cute.

But some of my most amusing photography experiences with my cats are when they do something unexpected as in this shot of Lily.

 

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Thoughts for Thursday – Enrichment for Cats

Is your cat getting enough enrichment or is she bored and lethargic. Or worse, does she get into trouble by clawing furniture, chewing the houseplants, and trying to escape every chance she gets? The fact is that your cat needs many of the same things you and your family do—shelter, food, companionship, and mental and physical stimulation. Do you ever get bored? What action do you take? If you’ve learned to take care of yourself, you find a way to stimulate your mind and/or body. You can do the same for your cat.

Trust me, you do not want a bored cat on your hands. While some cats simply go into bear-hibernation mode when they have nothing else to do, others become destructive. And neither of these behaviors results in a positive outcome for anyone.

Cats need enrichment, and a healthy cat will often remind us of this. What happens when you walk into your home after a long day or a few hours of shopping? Ours are eager to see what’s in the bags we carried in. Once they’ve examined the innards and the bags are empty, they might play in them for a while. Your cats probably helped you wrap Christmas gifts, prepare for your family gathering, inspect your table decorations, and the clothes you laid out to wear. Cats have a way of enriching their own lives, but when left to their own devises, their choices aren’t always to your liking. Wouldn’t it be miserable if every time you walked out the door for a little exercise, someone stopped you from talking a walk or doing a little gardening? While you’re eating lunch with friends and enjoying a lovely view of the ocean or beautiful gardens, what if someone suddenly pulled down the window blinds and sent your friends home?

That can be a cat’s life when his people aren’t pleased with the cat’s choice of enrichment activities. He finds a chair to claw and you cover it with aluminum foil. She happily digs in a plant and you get out the spray bottle. If you don’t like the activities of your cat’s choice, doesn’t it make sense to create safe and positive enrichment activities for your cat?

How? Think about what perks you up—what piques your interest and stimulates your mind. Consider your cat’s visual, auditory, and sensory needs. For example, I like variety in my life. I notice that my cats do too, so I might change out the cats’ toys, move the cat tree around now and then, as well as bring in something new for them to play with and climb on.

We have a cat tunnel, a few scratching pads, and a basket of cat toys that we can move around, hide and bring out randomly. Add a few paper bags and boxes now and then and the cats interest level and level of activity soars.

Build or buy a catio. Leash train your cat. Devise an enclosed stroller so you can take her outside for walks.

Lily loves water, so we brought in a fountain. I could buy another drinking fountain for the cats and either plug it in another place or change out the fountains for added stimulation and interest.

Install a window perch or move a piece of furniture up to a large window so your cat can keep an eye on the activity in your yard. Provide outdoor visuals—a bird bath, bird feeders, plants that attract birds.

Bring things from outside to the inside. I love the idea for burying grass, leaves, pods, and so forth in a box of shredded paper for the cats to explore in. Add a little catnip for extra stimulation.

And don’t forget to interact with your cats. Wands are my favorite interactive toy, however we once had a bad experience with a kitten and one of those retractable toys. The string wrapped around her and frightened her. She also eats the feathers off of the feather wands, so that’s not good. We have to be creative in choosing toys around here and you probably do in your home.

Here are a couple of sites that discuss enrichment for your cats. Visit them, take into consideration what I’ve suggested, and share your enrichment ideas here with us.

https://lifeandcats.com/enrichment-for-cats/

https://www.thesprucepets.com/enrichment-ideas-for-your-cat-4588682

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Wild (and Sometimes Crazy) Wednesday – The Tools of My Trade

On my Christmas list this year was a new ergonomic keyboard for my computer and a mouse pad.

I’m a writer. I’ve been writing for publication for over 45 years and I’ve replaced my “tools” many times over the years. I started out writing articles and books on a manual typewriter. I did a lot of my writing by hand back then, as well, so I went through a lot of steno pads. (Yup, that’s what they’re still called.) Sitting at a TV tray in a straight-back chair typing wasn’t the most comfy way to spend the day.

But there came a time when I graduated to an electric typewriter, then a word processor, finally a computer—which I’ve replaced numerous times over the years. I’ve worn out screens and I’ve worn out keyboards. I almost wore out my wrists until I discovered the ergonomic keyboard. LOVE this thing. And I have no more pain in my wrists! Well, I’ve loved all four or five of the ergonomic keyboards I’ve had. I keep wearing the letters off the keys. It’s true. I type so much that the letters begin to fade and finally disappear. After replacing two keyboards because of this, I decided to replace the lettering instead. That worked for a while, until I wore the glued-on letters off. So this year I asked for a new ergonomic keyboard and received one from Santa. THANK YOU.

In December, I began having trouble with my mouse responding. Long story short, we discovered it was the mouse pad that was failing, not the mouse. Have you ever heard of that happening? Yeah, I sure do use the tools of my trade. One of my grandson’s gave me a new one with a cat on it, of course.

Do you have a hobby, craft, or business that you pursue so enthusiastically that you wear out your tools and equipment more often than seems reasonable?

 

 

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Newsday Tuesday – Ordinary People Helping Stray Cats

I know many people who have gone out of their way to help feral cats. Some take any homeless cat into their home and heart. Some of them establish shelters and begin professionally helping homeless cats. Many others do what they can to save and protect the feral cats in their neighborhood.

My chiropractor is one of those. When she noticed cats skittering around the industrial park near her office, she attempted to befriend them and was successful with some of them. She noticed a few cats hiding out just outside her office window and she began providing food and shelter. A couple of the cats now wander inside her establishment and even take over the office chair on occasion. She has managed to get them spayed and neutered and boy do they look healthy.

This is not an isolated case. Thousands of people all over the world are stepping up to make life a little (or a lot) better for lost and discarded cats and kittens. If you’ve noticed stray cats in your neighborhood, here are a couple of sites where you can get some great advice about how to help. You can take action to place the cat where she will get the appropriate help, you can provide safe and adequate shelter using some of the great ideas in these articles, or you can take the cat in. Some neighbors band together to help free-roaming cats in their area—there’s power and confidence in numbers. And remember, there are established shelters and colonies operated by people who can help with your stray cat dilemma.

Check out these sites for additional information: https://www.meowsnpaws.com/cat-care/how-to-care-stray-feral-cats/ https://www.stray-cat-advice.com/how-to-care-for-a-stray-cat-in-winter-20-helpful-tips/

If you’ve noticed a new cat in the neighborhood or a couple of shy kittens wandering around, start their new year out right and offer a helping hand, even if it is to borrow a trap and deliver the cat to a local no-kill shelter where he will be cared for. Use keywords, feral cat + your county for local resources.

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Mindful Monday – Snuggle Cats

I photographed these two feral cats snuggling together to keep warm one chilly afternoon and I wondered, are they siblings? I’ve seen the way littermates wrap themselves around each other when resting or sleeping. It’s adorable. The two sister kittens next door (now around seven months old) often curl up with one another to sleep. The only two cats I’ve ever had that would curl up together like this were sister and brother. They were both grey-and-white and you couldn’t tell where one cat ended and the other one began.

Lily and Max used to crawl under the covers in my bed together, but it wasn’t because they loved each other. Lily came into our household as a kitten when Max was around twelve. He still had a lot of feral fears and he’d hide when we had company or workers around the house. Lily evidently thought that was a good idea and she began following his lead whenever she felt frightened and Max let her. I’d find those two together laying quietly side-by-side under the covers. That was the closest any of my non-related cats ever came to a cuddle.

I began to wonder if cats tend to snuggle only with those cats they’ve known since birth—their mother and their littermates. Then I thought about all of those videos and photographs shared on the Internet showing cats sleeping curled up with dogs, with other cats, and with their humans, of course. And what about the big old snarly male cat that was rescued from the streets at an advanced age and became a surrogate mother/father figure for frightened kittens. There are many photos of Mason (aka Grandpa) curled up protectively with abandoned kittens. I’m sure this isn’t an isolated case.

Do your cats snuggle together with each other? While Sophie and Lily seem to like having each other around and they play together almost every evening and they lay together in sun puddles in the morning, they have separate sleeping habits and separate beds. That’s just the way it is in our house.

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Frivolous Friday – Your Cat Rituals

Admit it, you and your cat have rituals you follow, right? And I’ll bet that at least some of them were the cat’s idea. Here in our household of two cats, we have customs and routines we follow quite ceremonial at times. Non-cat people would not understand, would they? Yeah, I still have a few friends who haven’t embraced cats yet. But that isn’t necessarily a permanent condition is it? I’m sure you know people who thought they didn’t like cats until they allowed themselves to know a cat. And do you know what this person almost always says; “This cat’s different. It’s not like all the other cats.” And that person stays in their comfort zone as someone who doesn’t like cats because the cat they have fallen in love with is not like other cats. Yeah—baloney!!!! They’re a confirmed cat person now—they wear cat hair on their clothes like the rest of us.

So what are some of your sweet, fun, silly, crazy, and comforting rituals with your cats? Katy, my beautiful Himalayan who crossed the rainbow bridge in 2004 (I still miss her so), she used to put me to bed at night. If she wasn’t curled up next to me on the couch at bedtime, she’d come get me and follow me through my bedtime ritual, jump up on my pillow and lay with one paw on my shoulder. After a few minutes, off she’d go to do her own thing, which I never found out what that was. I imagine many of you are tucked in at night by a beloved cat.

I use a straw to drink my morning coffee. When Lily hears me pull a straw out of the holder, she quickly joins me in my office and waits excitedly as I clip the tip of the straw off (so it will fit into my coffee cup). The straw tip flies through the air and she jumps for it. She loves chasing that piece of straw. I’ll pick it up numerous times and flick it again and again for her until she tires of leaping, and frolicking after it. I love that ritual (and so does she).

Max and I used to play catch with his squishy ball. At bedtime, he’d jump up on the cat tree and wait for me to pitch that ball to him. He’d swat at it, so it almost always came back to me. We probably could have entered a ping pong tournament we got so good at this game.

Winfield was our beautiful white odd-eye cat. So sweet and friendly and social. Lovely boy. He loved his water. And no, he didn’t have diabetes or kidney disease. He died of cancer. Sad day. Well, he drank with his paw—always did. Dip the paw, lick the water from it, dip his paw again. And before going to bed, he’d make sure he had plenty of kibbles and water to last him through the night.

No kidding. He’d see us getting ready to close up the house and head for bed and he’d go in and look at his bowls. If they were filled to his satisfaction, he’d join us for bed. If not, he’d sit there, wait until we walked by, and let us know we needed to fill his bowls.

Many cat people have treat rituals—the cats let their owners know when it’s treat time (ours do). Some do tricks for treats.

Who has a cat that will check out all of the guests at a gathering and immediately bee-line it to the one who’s either allergic to cats or who doesn’t like cats? The black cats will greet those wearing light colors and rub sweetly against them. The light-colored cats will gleefully welcome those wearing black.

And then there’s Lily who brings me my cozy socks almost every morning. I love hearing that little chirp she makes upon delivery.

I’d love to hear about your cat rituals—and tell us who initiated them—you or the cat? Leave your comments here.

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Thoughts for Thursday – Will You See the Movie, “Cats?”

I’ve been telling you about the coming of the movie “Cats.” And I’ve been eagerly awaiting the movie myself. I wanted to compare it to the musical. I was curious as to how they’d handle the movie version. I think many of you were too.

Well another cat-adoring friend and I made a date to see it and we did—one rainy afternoon just before Christmas. We walked into the relatively small theater (among eight or nine other theaters, I would guess) and settled down into a full-blown, roomy recliner chair. Oops, I hadn’t slept well that night. I was concerned—would I fall asleep during the movie? Gosh it was comfortable.

After thirty minutes of commercials (yes commercials like you see on TV) and movie previews (some I would like to see—others I was insulted or appalled by), the movie finally started.

Now keep in mind that they’d just sent theaters an updated version of the movie that very day. Those with technological abilities would play the new version on that Sunday, those without wouldn’t receive it until the following Tuesday. We asked, but no one knew whether we were seeing the new version or the original. The problem was evidently with the graphics.

My friend and I had seen the musical “Cats” together in Santa Barbara five or six years ago. Now we sat in delicious recliner chairs in a beautiful theater with only six or eight rows of seats eager to see the much talked about and criticized movie. I have to tell you, the two of us sat mesmerized for the next nearly two hours watching this fascinating adaption and listening to the great soundtrack without falling asleep, without feeling a sense of boredom, without thinking about the drive home in the rain, without going over our grocery list in our head.

As I’d done during the musical, I wept for the beloved cats I’ve lost toward the end when they sang the haunting “Memory” song. And when it was all over, I looked at my friend and said an exuberant, “I liked it!!!”

I waited for her response. She said, “I LOVED it.” As the two of us continued to sit in contemplation, another woman walked slowing down the steps toward the exit. She stopped and said, “My grandson said I should see this—I don’t know why, but I’m awfully glad I did. It was wonderful.”

There you have our reviews—our reaction to “Cats” the movie. How and why it is getting such bad reviews I cannot figure out. People pretending to be animals may be off-putting to some. Is that the whole thing? I’ve seen written some of the critical reviews, but I’m still not clear as to why the movie got such a bashing. It sounds personal—some people were offended, by what? I don’t rightly know.

Would love your input.

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Wild (and Sometimes Crazy) Wednesday – Did You Hear the One About the Cat Who…

There are thousands—maybe millions—of quotes about cats. I love reading them, don’t you? I guess my loved ones know it because I received two beautiful books with poems, quotes, and sayings about cats for Christmas this year. Can’t wait to settle down with them one rainy afternoon. I’ll cover my feet with a cozy blanket, which will surely entice Lily and Sophie to join me in my reverie. (Hey, maybe that’s a worthy quote.)

Here are some quotes I found this week that I thought you’d enjoy. Of course, some of them are classics. Check out the links below for more delightful, humorous, snarky, and fun quotes inspired by cats.

  • There are two means of refuge from the miseries of life: music and cats.”Albert Schweitzer.
  • No matter how much cats fight, there always seem to be plenty of kittens.”Abraham Lincoln.
  • The smallest feline is a masterpiece.”Leonardo da Vinci
  • Time spent with cats is never wasted.”Sigmund Freud

James Herriot said, “If your cat falls from a tree, go indoors to laugh.”

Rod McKuen said, “A dog will flatter you, but you have to flatter a cat.”

And how about these beauts?

Charles Dickens once said “What greater gift than the love of a cat.”

I like this one by Patricia Hitchcock (daughter of Alfred), “If you want to write, keep a cat.”

Please enjoy more quotes at these two sites. If you get addicted like I did, you may want to find others. Have fun.

https://www.shutterfly.com/ideas/cat-quotes/

https://cattime.com/lifestyle/1470-25-famous-quotes-about-cats

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Newsday Tuesday – Is Your Cat Bored With You?

 Is your cat showing signs of boredom? Actually, she probably had a pretty good month helping you wrap presents, knocking Christmas tree ornaments around, and playing among the gift bags and pretty paper. And what about the constant flow of Amazon boxes arriving at the door and being unloaded before her eyes.

But now that the hustle-bustle and fun is over and you’re settled in each evening reading your latest Klepto Cat Mystery, your cat just might be bored.

What are the clues? There are several: naughty behavior, over-grooming, sleeping more, eating more or eating less, inappropriate urinating, clawing furniture… What are the remedies? Well, I love those outlined at the site noted below. They include putting that book down for a while and playing with your cat, making room for her with you in that overstuffed chair so she doesn’t feel left out, and leash-training her so she can get some exercise in the fresh air.

You know your cat. You recognize when she’s displaying a new behavior and you’re probably on it. If that new behavior seems to be related to boredom, check out this site for some great insight and ideas. I’d love to hear how your cat acts out when she’s bored and how you remedy it.

https://pawesomecats.com/is-your-cat-bored-10-ways-to-prevent-boredom/

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Mindful Monday – What’s in a CAT’s Name?

When you adopt, rescue, purchase, or otherwise find yourself embracing a cat, do you struggle to name him or her? Or does the name just pop out as if the cat herself put it into your head? Does he send you mind-messages, “I’m Tuffy. I want to be Tuffy, ’cause I’m a tuff cat.” Or do you have a mishmash of names you’ve saved over the years for just the right cat or kitten? Maybe you want to call her Lulu after another cat you once loved or you came across a cat with a cool name you’d like to use: Alpha-Cat, Cleopatra, Geisha, or Hello Kitty.

I’ve used many different methods for naming a cat—from practically picking out a cat to fit the name I’ve been wanting to use, to observing the cat for several days to let her choose her own name.

The most unique naming ritual I’ve been involved in was the time my three small daughters couldn’t agree on a name for our grey and white kitten. We decided to let the kitten choose her own name. So we wrote down about eight of their name choices on tiny slips of paper, wadded them up and tossed them in front of the kitten. We would give her the name written on the wad she played with first. Well, on that initial scattering of the paper wads, the kitten simply sat and stared at the wads. I guess she didn’t like any of the names.

Plan B: we dipped the wads in gravy and tossed them again. This time, the kitten ate the first one she approached before we could take it from her. Rather than open all the rest of the gravy-soaked pieces of paper to try determining which name she ate, we called that a foul and tossed the wads again. This time we grabbed her before she could eat the one she picked. We opened it and that’s when we knew her name would be PomPom–my youngest daughter’s choice.

One of the cats we rescued came with the name Katy. We already had a cat named Katy, so we went to work trying to come up with a more appropriate name for the calico. We observed her for several days looking for clues as to the perfect name for her.

This cat seemed always to be in the kitchen when we were. One evening when I entered the kitchen to start dinner, and the cat, as usual, joined me, I broke into song: “Someone’s in the kitchen with Dinah…” And so it was that Dinah became her name.

When we rescued a family of three kittens who’d taken up residence in our woodpile, we gave them temporary names—we didn’t plan to keep any of them. We already had three cats. We would find homes for them. We called the girls, Braveheart and Bella and I tagged the beautiful snowshoe type male kitten, Creamy. Well, I thought he was a girl, for one thing. When we discovered he was a boy and that we would be keeping him, I had to find him a more fitting name and I was coming up against all kinds of brick walls.

I looked for names everywhere and I finally found one at a grandson’s high school graduation. I listened to the names of the students as they were called to receive their diplomas and when I heard Max, that one stuck.

Do any of you have a name or a few names already picked for your next cat or dog? How do you choose a name for your pets?

 

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