Frivolous Friday – Party With Your Cat


Have you ever thrown a party for your cat? Last Friday we talked about sharing happy hour with your cat and I introduced the concept of wine bottled just for your cat. Well, it’s actually a mixture of catnip or fish oil. Today we’re discussing parties created especially for a cat—a birthday party, a kitten shower, a wedding?

Yes, I said kitten shower. Here’s a site with some ideas for a grand welcome for your newly adopted kitten.

And if you want to include your cat in your wedding plans, here are some tips:

And here’s how to plan an amazing cat wedding (for you or for your cat)


We had a birthday party for Lily’s first birthday and invited all the neighborhood kids who had enjoyed visiting Lily during her first year. She loves children and they were attracted to her, so it seemed natural to involve the children in her first birthday.

And I’m not the only crazy cat lady in the neighborhood. Our next-door-neighbor honored their beautiful Abyssinian on her seventeenth birthday and invited kids and adults alike.

If you wonder how what goes into giving a cat party, here’s a link that shows you how to throw the best cat party (or pawty) ever:

There are thousands of ideas on Pinterest for parties for cats as well as cat-themed parties. Here, you’ll find a variety of desserts in the shape of cats, kitty-cat decorations, games (such as pin the tail on the cat and cat bingo) and tons more.


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Thoughts for Thursday – How to Determine Your Cat’s Heritage


DNA testing for ancestry information is all the rage these days. We want to know what exotic race we’re from, who we’re related to, what our beginnings might be. Have you ever wondered about your cat’s genetic background? Well they now have DNA tests for cats.

Here’s basically how it works. At or site they test for 170 DNA markers. Once the race of origin is determined, the cat’s genetic profile will then be compared to the profiles of breed cats that have developed from the same race.

You might find it interesting to know that the major cat breeds were developed from only 4 cat races: specifically, from the Arabian Sea (Sokoke), the Eastern Mediterranean (Turkish Angora and Turkish Van), cats of South Asia (Ocicat, Birman, Burmese, Havana Brown, Korat, Russian Blue, Siamese, Singapura, and Australia Mist) and cats from Western Europe (Abyssinian, American Shorthair, Bengal, British Shorthair, Chartreux, Cornish Rex, Egyptian Mau, Exotic Shorthair, Japanese Bobtail, Maine Coon, Manx, Norwegian Forest Cat, Persian, Ragdoll, Scottish Fold, Siberian, Sphynx). Where does your cat fit in?

If I were to guess at our cat, Lily’s heritage, I’d say she’s part dog. Well, what cat brings you your slippers and curls up at your feet in the evening? Seriously, I wonder if her heritage might date back to the Angora from the Eastern Mediterranean or maybe the Maine coon because she has very soft medium-length dilute tabby fur and the sort of green eyes I’ve seen on some Maine coon cats. Or she could originate from Western Europe and have Norwegian Forest Cat heritage.

The coloring of our shorthair tortie, Sophie, is thought to date back to Celtic times and a


male tortoiseshell cat (yes there is such an animal) is surrounded by all kinds of folklore in various parts of the world. Learn more about the Tortie here:

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Wild (and Sometimes Crazy) Wednesday – On Your Cat’s Terms

If you’ve had cats in your life for any length of time, you probably know that everything’s on their terms. They get petted when they want, fed when they want to eat, curl up in your lap when they want, go outside when they want. If a cat doesn’t get his way, he makes your life miserable.

He’ll yowl, claw your favorite piece of furniture, chew on your new houseplant, knock over the vase of freshly-picked flowers, hide from you and cause you to panic when you can’t find him, trip you in the middle of the night when you’re on your way to get a sip of water, eat from your plate when you turn your back for a minute, chew the bow on a package you just wrapped, shed all over your new black slacks and/or any number of naughty behavior.

However, behaviorists tell us that cats do not understand or perpetuate acts of revenge.


They don’t play payback. What we perceive as naughtiness or vengeance is simply a cat doing what cats do. There’s no malice or tit-for-tat intended—at least that’s what they say.

We know that cats are closer to their origins (the big cats) than dogs are to theirs. Are you going to trust that your precious little kitty-cat won’t revert back to their beginnings and commit a heinous act in your home? No, it’s best that we appease the cat. Give him what he wants when he wants it. Otherwise he can make your life at least uncomfortable and maybe worse. Those who you with cats already know that’s one reason why we spoil are cats. Right? And we love doing it.

And then there are cats who pay us back for treating them so well by saving our life. (Or do they do this for their own benefit, thinking that if she isn’t here anymore, who’s going to feed me?)

Today, I’d like to honor a cat hero named Grace. She was the saving grace for a family in Wisconsin when she alerted them to carbon monoxide fumes that were seeping into their bedroom. The couple were already experiencing the effects of the gas—they were disoriented, sick, feeling a lot of pain, but Grace’s persistent attempt to get their attention finally prompted them to call 911. All is well in that home thanks to Grace and the family has installed several new carbon monoxide alert systems. Good thinking.

Last month in Canada, a cat on sentry duty in his home at night noticed flames roaring in one of the rooms. He clawed his way into the owner’s bedroom and bit her on the arm. Now some might say he wanted her to get up and save him. Who knows—but everyone in the home that night got out safely thanks to the unnamed cat

Here’s a fun site listing other cat heroes.

What heroic cat acts have you witnessed? How do you spoil your cat?


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Newsday Tuesday – Protect Your Cat’s Health the Smart Way

Did you know that cats can suffer from diabetes, asthma, arthritis, acne, the cat flu, and even false pregnancies? They can get gallstones, glaucoma, gum disease, cushings disease, and even high blood pressure and cirrhosis of the liver. And a cat an have epileptic seizures.

These are all very good reason why you need to keep a close eye on your cat and report any physical changes or suspicious behavior to your veterinarian. This would include lethargy (in a typically energetic cat), lumps, rashes, tender spots, limping, bad breath, and any other changes you notice in your cat. If she’s sneezing a lot, she could have a foxtail in her nose, for example, especially as spring brings spring flowers and weeds.

When I had a horse, I learned how important it is to spend time with the animal. I thought this was mainly so you could bond with your horse—I mean, you are a team when you’re working together in competition or on the trail. When you handle a horse (or a cat) more often, they become more trusting; you learn about the animal’s idiosyncrasies and she learns about yours. And by my handling her more often, she becomes more gentle.

But another reason why you should interact regularly with your pet (horse, dog, cat, hamster, bird) is so that you can keep an eye on her health. The more you handle your animal, the more in tune you are about her personality as well as her health.

Groom your cat, pet her, examine her body. Look into her eyes, ears, and even her mouth. Feel for mats and internal masses. Notice if she winces when you touch certain areas, licks a spot over and over, is not eating, or is drinking more water than usual, for example. And when you detect something new, or even if it is something you’ve noticed for a long time and it isn’t quite normal, it’s time to take her to the vet.

Cats are living longer than ever before in history and one of the reasons why is better veterinary care. But our cats rely on us to get that care when it’s needed—in time to help the cat through any health issues that might arise.

Now, go pet your cat!

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Mindful Monday – Cats Eye Color Rule


Before we get into our topic for the day, I’d LOVE to share excerpts from an email I received yesterday from a fan.

I just finished reading eight of the Klepto Cat Mysteries—now I’ve read them all. As I read from the earlier to the later, I noticed more depth. The characters become real to some extent. I can’t have a cat due to severe allergies so this is a great way to “have a cat.” At any rate, what I especially found interesting is the way you make it so that each story can stand alone and you don’t repeat explanations of who or what from prior ones by cutting and pasting the same paragraphs, which is something many authors do.  You make the explanations only the amount needed and fresh each time. Plus, you have a knack of ending a story without really ending it. You make one anxious to find out how unfinished parts of the story turn out. It was really hard to put down each story and I read way into the night more than once.  Really nice job!  You’re very talented…

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About your cat’s eye color. You may have noticed that kittens all come with dark blue eyes. But when they reach three months or so, their permanent eye color becomes apparent. It may be a shade of blue, gold (copper) or green. Pointed cats (those with light body and dark face, legs and tail) always have blue eyes. White cats are sometimes prone to have eyes of a different color—one is always blue and the other could be copper or green. The odd-eye phenomenon has also been seen in torties, although it’s rare.

When you see a cat with extreme color eyes—almost turquoise, for example, or brilliant gold or green, the color has usually been bred into the cat.

What unusual cat-eye color have you seen in your experience with cats?

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Frivolous Friday – Happy Hour With Your Cat


It’s St. Patrick’s day. Many people—Iris or not—use this as an excuse to attend happy hour someplace and maybe drink green beer. Would you believe that some devout cat people even choose a wine bar where they can celebrate happy hour with their cat? Can you imagine sipping wine with your cat and even buying your feline friends a round?

Well, hold onto your chardonnay, folks. Cat lovers in Denver and in Fort Meyer, Florida have developed tiny bottles of wine for cats. There’s no alcohol involved, of course, unless you consider catnip a mind-altering substance. That’s right, they’re bottling mixtures of water, catnip and, in some cases, fish oil for cats and offering them at cat pubs and cafes and even selling them in stores such as TJ Maxx and Marshalls.

Looking for the purrfect gift for a real cat fanatic, why not buy a bottle or a case of CATbernet or pinot meow. And tuck in a gift card for your friend to enjoy a drinky-poo with his pet at Cat Town Café in Denver.

With the advent of flea control products and kitty litter, introduced in the early 1900s, cats


have been moved from the barn to inside the house. We’ve become more and more obsessed with and mesmerized by our cats to the point that we’re spoiling them rotten. Some of us even want to experience many facets of life with our pets—I mean think about it, you see dogs on leashes everywhere. In order to legitimize taking dogs into places where they’re typically not welcome, we put vests on them that say “therapy dog.” We take them to dog-friendly restaurants. And we spend millions per year on our pets.

With the Internet showing us how darn cute cats can be, more and more people are jumping on the bandwagon and buying designer cats and also, thankfully, rescuing those who need help. And even more cat products are being developed.

What is the most unusual cat item or pet product you’ve bought your cat? I buy tiny stuffed toys for Lily when we travel—a moose from Alaska, a lion when we visited the exotic cat rescue shelter, a turtle from the aquarium we took the grandkids to, and so forth. I bring home cat grass for them to munch on from time to time. But a bottle of PURRgundy or MEWosling? I doubt that will be on my cat-shopping list anytime soon. What about you? In case you’re interested, here’s a link:

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Thoughts for Thursday – Neighborhood Cats

I think just about every neighborhood has a collection of outdoor cats. Don’t you enjoy seeing them doing their cat-like things—going about their days in cat-fashion? I rather miss having my own indoor-outdoor cat. Our current cats stay safe inside all the time. We used to have a cat who insisted on having outside-time. Dinah would have it no other way and since she was in charge, we had to comply. She was always inside overnight, though. Sometimes we’d be summoned to let her out at night, but we’d always wait for her to come back in. She’d even go out for a potty-break when it was raining—very quickly, I might add.

My Himalayan, Katy, yearned to go outside as she got older. I was doing a lot of gardening then, and she wanted to be out there with me. So I started allowing her out while I was in the yard. She would always dart back into the house with me when I motioned for her to do so. Those are good memories.

Now I simply enjoy the neighborhood cats when I’m in the yard and I watch them from the windows chasing butterflies, following ladybugs, checking out snails, rolling in the dirt in a sunny spot, etc.

Not all cats are neighborhood-friendly, though. We had one terrorist cat living next door for about five years. Thankfully, his people moved and took him with them. Rocket, an ornery yellow tiger-striped cat, would attack our indoor cats through the windows, sometimes ripping claw holes in our screens. He killed birds. So I had to quit feeding birds for a good while. And he was not friendly to people, either. He’d pretend to be sweet, then he’d claw the heck out of your arm or hand or leg. One neighbor didn’t have screens on her windows and when she’d open them to let in fresh air, Rocket would sometimes sneak in and eat food left out or, worse, attack her older Abyssinian, Ruby. The cat was a psycho terrorist, I tell you! When you love cats, it’s hard to dislike one, but Rocket made it easy.

I think that Cats lend a warm, charming element to a neighborhood. When I’m out walking and I see a cat on a roof, through a window, on a porch, or playing on a lawn, for example, I can’t help but smile. Maybe some of the photos I’ve taken of neighborhood cats will make you smile, too.


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Wild (and Sometimes Crazy) Wednesday – Cats With Double Lives

Have you ever had a cat that you suspected of leading a double life? One who spent time with you, but not all the time? Maybe she would sleep at your house, but was gone all day. Or he hung around during the day and left at dusk. You probably worried because he didn’t seem to be eating. But he was gaining weight. Did you wonder if your cat had a second home?

My mother is a stopover (probably not the only stopover) for a neighborhood cat. Gibbs is actually quite trim. He wears a collar, which is how we know his name. And he visits my mother’s house every single morning asking for a handout.

One day I called the number on Gibbs’s collar and learned that, indeed, he has loving owners and a home to go home to, but he also roams and begs. Gibbs’s owners say they’ve heard from others who are feeding him. He seems to make the rounds every day and usually scores. Well, he has these big, round eyes that are hard to resist.

I had a cat once who moved across the street when we brought home a dog.

And then there are cats who travel great distances or even just a little ways and either don’t return or return weeks or months later. I just read an adorable story of such a cat. If you haven’t read Caroline Paul’s Lost Cat, A True Story of Love, Desperation, and GPS Technology, you’re in for a treat.

Caroline is a delightful writer and her story is fun, light, and oh, so telling when it comes to cat behavior. She actually used GPS technology and tiny cameras to find out where her cat was going each day. Her findings are hilarious.

I have a story in my book, Catscapades, True Cat Tales, about a cat I had once who ran away—well, she disappeared. She was a gorgeous cat and she might have been picked up. And she was unique enough to recognize when she showed up again many months later with a newborn kitten. What the heck? I’d had her spayed a year or so earlier. This is a most unusual story and you’ll find it on page 65 in Catscapades, True Cat Tales. Order this book here:

There’s also the story of Bootsie, an adorable black-and-white girl  with four white socks who showed up on my friend, Ann’s doorstep and invited herself in. When she didn’t seem to want to leave, Ann started calling her Bootsie. A few years later, Ann was in her yard chatting with a neighboring farmer when he spotted the cat lounging on Ann’s porch. He said, “Hey, that’s Bootsie.” Ann asked how he knew the cat’s name and he revealed that his barn cat, Bootsie, had disappeared two years earlier and never returned. Now what are the chances of a cat getting to keep her name even when she moves in with new people?

This story is on page 96 of Catscapades.

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Newsday Tuesday – Cat Claws Laws and Care

There are a couple of things about living with cats that can be annoying. Some people find these things so annoying they take strong measures. An inside cat, who sheds, claws furniture, chews on or digs in house plants, or misses the litter box, for example, might be banned from the house, given away, or taken to a shelter. Some cat owners try to use punishment as a detriment—usually to no avail. And some take more drastic measures such as shaving the cat or declawing it. And you’ve probably heard some of the horror stories occurring from the practice of removing a cat’s claws. They range from serious complications and infection and horrific pain for the cat to a dramatic change in the cat’s personality. Sure, some declawing operations seem to be successful. But many people still believe it’s a barbaric practice.

New Jersey may be the first state in the US to ban the declawing of a cat. They’re on verge of doing so as we speak. Here’s an article as to why this law may go on the books in New Jersey.

It seems that there are similar bans in a few California cities including Berkeley, West Hollywood, Beverly Hills, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Santa Monica, Malibu, Culver City, and Burbank. And declawing is outlawed in 27 countries, including Germany, France, Australia, Brazil, England, Italy, Scotland, and Israel.

To read more about the pros and cons of declawing a cat here:

The main reason why people declaw their cats is because of the damage the cat does to

Baby Lily and Friend

furniture. Some cats are more “destructive” than others. Another reason is to protect small children from a cat’s scratch. What can you do as an alternative? I know people who use claw covers on their cats. Always, always have plenty of cat furniture for the cat to scratch on and make sure it’s sturdy, and covered in an appropriate type of material. This might be wood or sisal.

The best gift you can give your cat is to understand what his claws mean to him and help him take care of them properly, which may mean that you’ll need to clip them regularly or have a vet do it. Lily and some of our former cats have a couple of nails that grow large and grotesque, so they need careful monitoring. We’ve had a cat’s claw grow into the pad. Yes, those claws can cause trouble for the cat and it’s up to us to keep a close eye on them.

Here’s a must-read link about cats’ claws and how to help your cat keep them healthy.

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Mindful Monday – Shameless Cozy-Cat-Mystery Promotion

For those of you who missed the announcement, there’s another holiday mystery in the Klepto Cat Mystery series. If you like a story with a lot of twists, turns, and surprises as well as tons of kitty-cat action, you’ll adore this book. Warning: Keep a box of tissues handy.

Title: A Christmas to Purr About. Available in print:

and for your e-reader

In A Christmas to Purr About, the Ivey family and friends agree to serve the hungry during the holidays, but not without serious consequences that require a little feline and equine intervention. Detective Craig goes missing, Rags is accused of grand theft and malicious mischief, Savannah is harassed and nearly arrested, Michael has a surprise reunion to beat all reunions, and Peaches facilitates a Christmas miracle.  If you were touched by A Picture-Purrfect Christmas, you’re going to adore this story of struggle, strife, and fear overcome in the most unusual and loving fashion.

I’ve heard from a few fans and they say they could not get through this book without tissues. It is a tear-jerker–an emotional roller coaster. But everyone is so glad they read this book and are eager and on pins and needles for the next in the series.

Spoiler Alert

Be sure to read this week’s blog posts. They’ll include laws and detriments to having your cat declawed, stories of cats with double lives, and Happy Hour with your cats—yes, there’s wine for cats. Just when you think you’ve seen the most ridiculous in cat products and pampering.


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