Mindful Monday – A Sad Ending and a New Beginning for Smokey

You might recall my mentioning Smokey, my mother’s cat, a time of two or three over the years in this blog. You’ve seen numerous photos of him. He’s also my model for Rags in the Klepto Cat Mysteries. I chose him partly because I thought it would tickle Mama (it did) and because of Smokey’s purr-sonality. He has a confidence about him that made me believe he could get into all of the trouble Rags does in the stories. He’s an adventurer and he’s full of surprises.

Well, six days ago, something happened to shake up Smokey’s world. My mother, his closest companion for all of his eight years passed away at the age of 97. Smokey became an orphan.

Gone is the only lap he would ever sit in. How he loved his daily snuggle with Mama. He also liked to ride around the house with her on her walker tray. He liked other people—all people—and he was never shy about making your acquaintance with head-bumps against your ankles. The more people around, the happier he was. He also adored petting and just being admired as he stretched out and rolled around in the middle of the floor enjoying an audience.

When Mama got to the point where she needed more care, we brought in a team of caregivers—some of them came either not caring for cats or a little timid about being around a cat. We told them that the cat was the second most important priority in that household. If they couldn’t deal with the cat, this wasn’t the job for them. Smokey is large and in charge and extremely important to us all.

No one walked away and everyone stepped up to the plate in a major way, even giving Smokey his meds when he had a health issue earlier this year. We were delighted that all of the caregivers grew to love Mama and adore Smokey.

How sad it was for all of us to realize that Smokey, in his cat-like way, seemed to be mourning his loss. He was totally off his game and confused and, probably sad. And we were all concerned about what would happen to Smokey. We all want the absolute best for him. As it turns out, although things will never be the same for Smokey, he will continue to be loved and cared for by a beloved family member.

My niece Kathy and her husband, Karl, drove Smokey, who was only about three months old, from my brother’s house in Idaho to live with Mama. They’ve visited often over the years staying with Mama and Smokey. He knows Kathy and Karl well. So when the discussion about Smokey’s future became serious, Kathy and Karl decided they wanted him to come live with them to their new home about three hours away.

Kathy had a plan. She stayed in Mama’s house with Smokey for a few days to bond and to help him adjust there before snatching him up into a whirlwind of change. She took him to his veterinarian for a well-check and a consultation about his condition. She also got additional tips about how to make the transition easier for Smokey and their other cat.

I visited him for, perhaps, the last time Saturday and whispered in his ear that he would be just fine—he is loved. I asked Kathy, tongue in cheek, if we had visitation rights. She said, “Of course, Smokey is everybody’s cat.” And that pretty much sums it up when you consider that he has been cared for and loved over the years pretty much by a village.

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Frivolous Friday – My Favorite Klepto Cat Mystery

Yeah, I sometimes ask you to name your favorite Klepto Cat Mystery, I figured it was time to reveal mine. In fact people ask me that question a lot. And I usually do the same thing you do—I say, “I like them all,” or I simply hem and haw and dance around the question, saying, “I recommend you start with Book One, Catnapped or maybe read Meowmoirs of a Klepto Cat, first. I sometimes say, if you like horses, dig into The Corral Cat Caper or the more recent horsey adventure, FURever Friends.

Do you love the supernatural, then you’ll have fun with Mansion of Meows and Pawsitively Sinister. For a lovely Christmas story involving cats, A Picture-Purrfect Christmas is a must-read as is A Christmas to Purr About.

I’m sure many of you reading this are nodding your head in agreement and maybe giving a shout-out about another book or two that you particularly enjoyed because a cat in the story reminded you of your cat, the incident was something you could relate to, it touched your heart in some way, or it made you laugh.

Yes, I have a soft spot for each of my books. I guess that’s because I have put so much into each of them—so much of me, in many cases. I thoroughly enjoyed introducing the characters—both human and feline—in Catnapped, and shaping my first story, which took closer to six months than the two months it usually takes for me to create a story now. The Meowmoirs was fun to compile because it took me down memory lane through each of the stories. I love horses. They were a big part of my life for several years, so I had a blast creating stories including both cats and horses. The supernatural is of interest to me and writing about it is cool because practically anything goes. You don’t have to research hard facts like you do in most down-to-earth scenarios. And the Christmas stories. What can I say, “Got tissues?” Who doesn’t love a touching story of love and giving? Oh yes, they are special indeed.

Now I’m going back to working on the outline for Book 36 which I believe will take place in San Francisco around art, books, something maybe sinister, and a very special child. But don’t quote me as I’m in the very early stages.

You might be interested in knowing that Book 35—On the Wrong Side of the Paw, is with the editor. I think you can plan to read this one by May Day.

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Thoughts for Thursday – Is Your Cat Psychic?

Yesterday we touched on a cat’s natural curiosity and how they seem to know where a guest sat even though they were several rooms away during the entire visit. I talked about how one of my cats immediately zeroed in on a something new in the room even though they were nowhere around when it was brought in. You probably have stories of your cats doing something similar. How do they do it? How is it they seem to know things that they shouldn’t know?

I like to knit. As you probably know, cats are attracted to the activity and the items involved with most craft and needlework projects—yarn, the enticing movement of needles, string, ribbon, beads, and so forth. And what’s up about a cat and a sewing project? Mine think that a piece of fabric laid out to be cut is a playground for them. And try placing a pattern piece on the fabric when the cat’s in the vicinity. Super-duper playtime. But what gets me is that even though I wait until Lily and Sophie are sleeping to quietly dig out a knitting project, it’s mere minutes before they’re sitting there with me watching the needles or at my feet rolling around with the ball of yarn or—darn it—chewing the yarn in half so that I suddenly find myself knitting with a soggy, blunt end of yarn. Some of my knit slippers have numerous knots tied because of cat interference.

How do they know when you’re working on a project—doing your taxes, for example. You wait until the cats are lolling in the sun or taking one of their many daily naps before spreading the receipts and other papers out on the dining room table. But soon the cat is awake and eager to help. Right? Is it their keen sense of hearing that alerts them? Is it that you’re suddenly quiet and they feel they’d better check to see what you’re doing? OR are cats actually psychic, which is something I’ve suspected for years.

I believe a cat can tune into what you’re thinking, especially if you think in pictures—create mind-pictures that your cat sees and reacts to. If you’re thinking about putting her into a carrier and taking her to the vet, you won’t see your cat for hours. If you need to get your hands on her now, she will be hiding as if she’s invisible. Good luck finding her. But start thinking about lunch and here she comes. How often do you just think about feeding your cat—no walking into the kitchen, no can opener or lid-pop sounds—just pure thought, and the cat walks into the room? This week try some experiments with your cat. Be conscious of what you’re thinking and watch your cat’s reaction. Would love to have you report back here—leave your comment.

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Wild (and Sometimes Crazy) Wednesday – The Curious Cat

Cats are curious beings. Don’t you love seeing your little fluff-ball exploring new territory? I do—well, as long as it’s safe territory. Our kitties like to climb on furniture or leap up to a counter or tabletop to see things from a different perspective. They get excited when they see an open closet door, cabinet, or drawer. And when I bring in shopping bags, they make a bee-line to see what’s inside.

When we have company, the cats may hang out in another room until the people leave. But as soon as the coast is clear, they’re all over the lingering scents. They go right to the spot where the visitor sat and spend several minutes sniffing the floor and the chair. I’ll never forget the December night when neighbors walked up with gifts. One gift was a Christmas tree ornament, which we immediately hung on the tree. The cats, mind you, were in the back bedroom the entire time our guests were here. Yet, when the neighbors left, one of the cats returned to the living room, and, without hesitation, walked right up to that ornament on the tree and began giving it the kitty once-over.

Lily is especially interested in the scents small children leave. She has always been interested in little ones. As a kitten, she used to sit on my desk and watch out the open window as the children next door played. We took care of a grandchild one day a week then and the two of them became great friends—well, they grew up together. Now, she doesn’t always greet children when they come, but she seems to delight in their quiet, gentle visits with her as she hangs out on the bed.

What fun photos do you have of your cat checking out unusual places and items? Would love to share them with blog visitors. As you can see, I’ve collected a few of my own and friends have sent me some.

 

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Newsday Tuesday – Weight-Watchers for Cats

Today is weigh-in day for my mother’s cat, Smokey. He had a urinary tract blockage in January and was put on a special diet. In the process he has lost some weight. After discussing with the veterinarian exactly how much he should be eating, and putting him on a more regular feeding schedule, we need to check his weight today. Cross fingers he is either holding his own or even gaining back to where he was.

Weight gain or loss of a pound or more can be crucial in determining a cat’s level of health and well-being. A loss or a serious gain is telling to his veterinarian. In fact you may notice that anytime you take your cat to the vet, he gets weighed. If there’s a change in the cat’s weight, you might be interrogated: what has he been eating? how much? any changes in is activity? etc. And you might go home with instructions—more interaction with your overweight cat, toys that dispense treats when played with, maybe creative climbing options or opportunities. For one that is losing weight, you might be instructed to change her diet, feed on a more regular basis, give a more calorie enriched food, etc.

It’s a good idea for you to check on your cat’s weight between vet checks, as well. It’s hard to tell through all that fur just by looking when a cat is gaining or losing. Next time you come home from your veterinarian’s office, note your cat’s weight. Then climb on your scale with him and see how it compares. Make a note of his start weight on your scale and weigh fluffy every few weeks.

Often it takes someone who sees your cat only occasionally to notice a weight gain or loss. So if a neighbor or friend says something, pay attention and respond accordingly.

Keep in mind that weight gain or loss can be an early indicator of an underlying health problem.

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Mindful Monday – How Many Cats Does it Take to Shoot a Movie?

Cats star in films and they do cameo spots. They also appear in commercials. If you pay close attention, you’ll sometimes see the cat in the film change into another cat. Yes, before your very eyes, a tiger cat’s stripes might change a little, the round eyes may suddenly appear almond-shaped, the tangerine coloring fades in some scenes. Is it the lighting? The angle of the cat? Probably not. It’s a whole ’nother cat.

It’s true. Ever hear of a cat double? In Captain Marvel, for example, there are four cats playing the part of Goose. There were six stand-ins for Bob in A Street Cat Named Bob. Do you remember Disney’s That Darn Cat? Evidently one of the several Siamese cats that played the star, DC, also worked alongside a handful of cats all playing the starring Siamese in The Incredible Journey. You might find this article interesting: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/15/movies/captain-marvel-goose.html

Remember Morris the finicky cat who would only eat the food of his sponsor? Smart cat. Well, three different cats played Morris over the years, but I can’t find evidence that he had a double for the commercial. He also played in a couple of films and he’s so well thought of that he was quoted once. His statement? “Meow.”

Don’t you love stories about cats? I was asked recently why Disney hasn’t picked up my Klepto Cat Mystery series for a film. Wow, what a thought. I guess it could happen some day.

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Frivolous Friday — What You See at a Cat Show

Have you ever been to a cat show? What is the point of a cat show, anyway? Well, there are breeders who take great pains to breed the best and pride in those best according to standards set by that breed association. Some breeders sell their kittens and they show their cats in hopes of getting high marks they can use in promoting their line. the higher their cats rank in the judging ring, the more valuable their resulting kittens are.

Some show participants simply love a certain breed and might have one or two cats that they show for the enjoyment. Can you imagine your cat enjoying a day (or weekend) spent traveling in the car, then being groomed and fussed with by the hour (for some breeds) and handled by strangers (judges) and ogled by dozens or hundreds of other strangers? Some cats seem to thrive on this lifestyle and others really aren’t into it.

The cats of the same breed are judged against each other with the judges following specific guidelines for each breed. It’s interesting to watch, especially when you know some of the specs–which you can find online. Just look up that breed for more information.

Sometimes you have the opportunity to purchase purebred cats or kittens at a cat show. But don’t go there with the idea of petting the judging entries or holding them. It’s generally hands off for cats at a cat show lest you spread disease or, in some cases, muss the fur before judging. Some cats don’t tolerate a lot of handling and will get stressed–not a good demeanor for a cat to be in when meeting up with the judges.

While some people dislike cat shows–can’t stand seeing the cats in cages, I enjoy seeing the variety of cats, the obvious changes in standards for some old breeds, how the cats are groomed and handled by the owners, and the way the pens are decorated to look like little kitty boudoirs. You’ll see pens decorated in colorful swatches of silk and satin, beads, tassels, and cozy beds. Some cat pens are themed and most have beautiful ribbons they’ve won for their beauty, disposition, and breed standards.

If you love cats and are fascinated by some of the interesting, old, and unique breeds out there today, you really should attend the next cat show that comes to a town near you. You’ll have a meowvelous time.

 

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Thoughts for Thursday – Cats That Come Back From the Dead

It’s always wonderful to hear that a cat (or any other animal) that was considered extinct, is found to be alive and well. Just this month the Taiwanese Leopard Cat was spotted in the wilderness of southeast Taiwan. The Taiwanese Leopard Cat, a subspecies of the clouded leopard, was last seen in 1983.

https://livelovefruit.com/formosan-clouded-leopard/

If you think we’re doing a fine job keeping cats and other animals from going extinct—think again. Here’s a shocking rundown on the cats that are in danger of becoming extinct—at the top of the list is the beautiful snow leopard. https://www.treehugger.com/slideshows/natural-sciences/cats-are-going-extinct-12-most-endangered-feline-species/#slide-top

 

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Wild (and Sometimes Crazy) Wednesday – Cats That Lick

I love these cat-licking photos. I guess it’s because they show the cat doing something other than simply looking cute. Well, a licking cat is a cute cat and boy do they lick a lot! Cats lick their fur, paws, face, after they eat, after someone has touched them, after their naps, before their naps, and just because they feel like licking—or so it seems. Sometimes cats lick humans. Is that because they think you need a bath or is it a sign of affection? Our white odd-eye cat Winfield loved hand lotion and perfumes and would often want to lick and chew on my hands after I’d washed them or used lotion or washed dishes. It became embarrassing when he’d practically attack a guest’s hands.

According to experts there are a variety of reasons why a cat or a kitten lick you. It might be because the cat’s lonely or suffering from anxiety. Here’s an interesting article explaining five reasons why your cat might lick you.

https://pethelpful.com/cats/Why-Does-My-Cat-Lick-Me-5-Reasons-Cats-Lick-Their-Owners

But what about excessive licking in cats—you know, when the cat obsessively licks or chews on himself or another cat? There could be an underlying reason related to discomfort either physically or emotionally—parasites, for example, allergies, again, anxiety. Here’s an article that might help you determine your cat’s reason for compulsive licking, chewing or scratching.

https://pets.webmd.com/cats/guide/cats-and-compulsive-scratching-licking-and-chewing#1

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Newsday Tuesday – Your Cat’s Drinking Habits

Yesterday we discussed kidney disease. Today I’d like to focus on dehydration, which can be a problem for cats who have the disease or not. As you’ve probably read before, cats in the wilds get moisture from the prey they eat. Pet cats are often fed a dry diet and some may not drink enough water to compensate for the lack of moisture in their food.

Of course there are instances where cats are lost and can’t find a water supply, their water isn’t changed often enough and they don’t care to drink it when it tastes stale, dust has accumulated in the water bowl, or a kibble or two has found the way into the water bowl and contaminated it. As you know, cats can be picky about their food and drink.

What you should know is that dehydration in cats (or any being) can lead to organ failure. So it is important to make sure your cat always has a fresh supply of water and that he is drinking it. How? Provide several bowls inside the house (and if the cat goes out) outside, too. If your cat isn’t much of a water drinker, try enticing him with fresh water from the tap. Yes, turn on the tub or sink tap when he’s around and invite him to lap from the tap. Don’t leave it running—that wastes water. Just run it as long as the cat is interested.

Bring in a cat water fountain. Lily LOVES her fountain and Sophie has grown to enjoy it too. It’s a fascination for the cats and it circulates the water so it’s fresher.

Here’s a great article on dehydration in cats. It gives details on how to tell if your cat is dehydrated and offers additional tips for preventing dehydration.

https://www.cathealth.com/cat-care/how-to/2233-dehydration-in-cats-how-can-you-tell-if-a-cat-is-dehydrated?goal=0_3e73124b70-c8e158b353-587741849&mc_cid=c8e158b353&mc_eid=ad8616dba2

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