Lily may have the largest collection of stuffed animal toys around. She started her collection at a young age by taking a tiny stuffed teddy bear from a shelf and a stuffed polar bear and turtle from the grandkids’ toy box and making them hers. Since then we’ve bought her many little critters and she has confiscated more of mine—a small moose and a grizzly bear I brought back from Alaska, for example.
Sometimes I get a little annoyed to find a dozen or
more of her toys strewn all over the house only minutes after I’ve put them away. But I also find it humorous, especially when she shows up with a stuffed toy in her mouth and meows loudly before dropping it at my feet.
Last week, when I picked up her toys, I put them in a different place. Soon I heard a loud meow and I went to look. I found Lily sitting just outside my office, the polar bear
toy lying in front of her exactly where I’d picked it up from. It was as if she was telling me, “This is where it belongs, not in that basket in the living room or the toy box…right here!”
What is she a frustrated home decorator? Is this a mind game? She is asserting herself to gain greater control in this household? Is she simply bringing me her toys out of love? Or is she showing off her hunting abilities? We haven’t been able to figure it out, but in the meantime, I have to say—I’m learning to live with Lily’s odd obsession and it does make me smile.
Have you ever thought about what life would be like without a cat in your home and your heart?
spills. I could come and go without guilt or elaborate planning for the care of the fur-kids left behind. I could complete a project without an inquisitive helper, and I could get up from a chair or sofa without disturbing a fur-baby. My bed would once again be MINE and so would my favorite chair. I could also eat in peace.
I could walk barefoot throughout the house and not feel as though I was at the beach. Yes, no more tracked litter and no puffs of fur to chase across the hardwood floors. I could wake up on my own without a cat jumping on my head, biting my hair, and pawing at my nose?
and displaced keys. I wouldn’t have a cute little inquisitive fur-face join me in my office each morning. My house might even stay neat all the time without kitty toys, tunnels, trees, blankets, boxes, bags, tents, etc.
I found a cute piece of cat news last week involving presidential protocol and one smart cat, who may have broken it. While Trump visited the UK, Larry, the Downing Street cat and Chief Mouser for the cabinet office, crawled under his limo and refused to move. As I understand it, it was raining and Larry’s certainly no fool. He’s a cat, after all. He cared little about protocol or time-schedules, he just wanted to stay dry. You go, Larry.
about a cat who kept an abandoned baby alive by climbing into the box with the infant to warm him. I have to wonder, was the cat’s primary concern the baby or was it his own comfort he was thinking about? Nonetheless, it was a touching story and I’m glad both beings survived.
Most likely, you’ve found your cat in odd places over the years. Kittens, especially have a way of discovering hidden, out of the way, secret cubbies where they can nap or just watch the world go by. I recall spending some frantic moments more than once searching for a kitten that
seemed to disappear into thin air. In fact I’m having fun with that concept in Book 37 of the Klepto Cat Mystery series. (You should be reading that book before the heat of the summer subsides.) I won’t tell you where the cats in Book 37 are coming from (and going), but in my real life,
I’ve found cats in closets, cupboards, drawers, exploring the dishwasher and fridge, and one was lost for hours in my home once among cans of peas and spinach on a built-in lazy Susan shelf.
Boy, was I glad to find that little guy.
look. We’ve sure had that happen in our household. One of the best hiding places our cats found—freaking us out for hours until we discovered them—was up inside the lining of a mattress. Good job, Max. When I found him that day I didn’t know whether to scold him or hold him. Scary moments.
What causes a person to become so overwhelmed with cats that they can’t take care of them? Many cat hoarders start out wanting to help cats. Some don’t have the means to do the right thing by having the cats spayed/neutered. The cats keep having kittens, more cats come to them, and soon things get out of hand.
currently needing homes.
It doesn’t matter where you live in the US—even the world. There are cats in need. 178 cats were rescued from a home in West Bloomfield, MI in May and may be ready for adoption as we speak. In June, in Polk County, Iowa, there were found to be over 176 cats living in horrendous conditions and nearly 200 deceased cats on the same property. And there was another case of cat hoarding where dozens of cats were rescued in Billings, MT.
It’s second nature in our household to feed our two cats two different diets. I was asked again this week, “How do you do that? How do you keep them out of the other one’s food?”
your breakfast and you’re not getting Sophie’s breakfast. So eat this or lose out.” Sophie didn’t really care one way or the other. If Lily managed to approach her meal, she’d walk away and let her have it.
Sometimes, when I see her start to leave her dish, I’ll call her name. Know what I get? A tail swish. Does your cat ever swish her tail at you when you say her name in a scolding manner? Cracks me up!!!
A friend sent me this story and photo of her cat Mouse last week. I thought you’d get a kick out of it.
sure takes every opportunity to dive into the cat food cupboard and make sure we’re stocked up for the season. When I return from buying cat food, Lily is always available to make sure it gets stacked just right. And she lets me know when the kibbles in her bowl are running low or maybe getting a little stale.
company. If we get up to walk anyplace else, Lily tries to herd us into the kitchen. When it is finally time for the cats to eat, Lily becomes Velcro against my legs as I prepare their meal and both cats sing for their supper (or breakfast or lunch) at the top of their lungs.
This morning Lily (a dilute tabby) leaped into the bathtub after a flying insect. As she sat there looking up at me I remembered Winfield. He was a pure white odd-eye cat. He had one blue and one green eye. One day I happened to see him sitting in the bathtub and my photographer’s eye took over. I thought he looked stunning with white against white with those striking eyes and pink nose. What a great photo opp. As it turned out I couldn’t manage the shot well
enough, so I had a friend who’s a professional photographer take that picture for me.
No. His mother was a dark tabby, as I recall. And he was the only white cat in the litter.
chance of deafness. I’ve also read that white cats are often born blind. I knew someone years ago who had two white cats. One was blind and the other deaf. They were siblings and they watched out for each other throughout their life—the deaf one seeing for the blind one and vice versa.
Yes, I’m a cat stalker. I walk most days and
I’m always on the lookout for cats in the neighborhood. Why? I like to see them and meet and greet them. And I often photograph them.
familiar with at a distance. Some peer at me through a window from inside their home, but most are roaming free, climbing trees, hiding under cars, slinking through empty lots, sitting on a rooftop or porch, or curled up in a shady spot in someone’s yard.
Do you enjoy brief encounters with neighborhood cats while out in your yard or walking around the block? Do you stop to pet the feline greeter at the local pet store or library before conducting business there? Do you smile upon seeing a cat sunning herself on a windowsill? Do you often photograph cats you see out and about? Maybe you’re a cat-stalker too.
If you’re like me you love a cat’s cute little paws. Never mind where those paws have been—scratching around in the litter box, for example. Paws are cute and soft and they’re also very sensitive. Most cats don’t like to have their paws touched. My Himalayan, Katy, however, loved it when I gently petted her large, furry paws. Those were special moments. I felt it was Katy trusting me—a gesture of trust.
many jobs—some of them you’re keenly aware of. As I mentioned, a cat’s paws are used for digging. A cat washes her face with her paws. She plays, pounces, claws, grabs, and even soothes another animal or her human with a paw. A cat’s paws are a cooling mechanism for the cat when
overheated. They are used to communicate. We’ve all seen cats pawing or clawing on a person, another animal, or an object to get their attention. Cats also use their paws to mark their territory—by kneading on you or the sofa or their cat tree…
were to watch a close up of the workings of a cat’s paws when he leaps, walks, or runs, you’d see those cute little paws performing extra duty as shock absorbers as well as climbing and sprinting tools.
Have you ever thought about shaving your cat so she’ll be cooler in the summer? Don’t do it. Experts say that cats have coats for a reason. A cat’s fur insulates her from the heat in summer and the cold in winter. This is not to say that a cat with a full coat can’t get seriously overheated or suffer and even die in cold weather. It’s up to us to help keep our cats comfortable in any weather conditions and shaving them might hinder our attempts.
haired calico, Daisy, to the groomer once a year and have her belly shaved. I could manage her fur mats except for those on the fine fur on her tummy. You couldn’t even tell she’d been shaved unless she rolled over and exposed her bare tummy.
If your cat tends to collect awful fur mats, consider spending more time grooming him. Consult a cat groomer as to the best tools and procedures to prevent matting. Cats shed in spring and summer. The shedded fur tangles with the rest of the fur and this is one way mats are formed. So regular grooming can help. Sometimes we have to cut out a mat that formed when we weren’t looking. A groomer can show you how to do that. If you absolutely must shave your cat or even a section of your cat, let a professional do it. Your veterinarian may even help with this during a routine vet check.
Some cat owners think it’s fun to dye their cats different colors—red-white-and-blue for patriotic holidays, green at Christmas and St. Patrick’s Day, etc. Experts say, “Don’t do it.”
helping your cats groom. Many cats would rather not have your help. It’s not fun to tangle with an uncooperative cat. But there are ways.



