Newsday Tuesday – Why Cats Need a Companion Cat

For those of you who have dogs, there’s another pet food recall. This one’s for Evangers Hunk of Beef. Here’s the scoop: http://www.fox10phoenix.com/news/us-world-news/234086968-story

Lilysophietoy5We explored the concept of having more than one cat last week. Today, I’d like to discuss the benefits of having more than one cat. In my world, two is a purrfect number. Here’s why: When you’re gone, the cats have each other, just in case they would be comforted by another being in their space. And when there are two cats, they’re more inclined to get the exercise they need. Our two—Lily and Sophie—play chase, peek-a-boo, and other games almost every evening. And if they don’t seem in the mood, I’ll give them something to get excited about—newspaper sections folded over like little tents, I’ll bring out toys they haven’t seen in a while, or introduce something entirely new.

Sometimes I’ll sit on the floor with them and wriggle a wand toy. If Lily’s in the mood, I’ll rookietoss wads of paper for her to leap after and chase. Sophie usually sits that activity out. But she will show off her feline speed by racing up and down the hallway.

Some cats happily cozy up to dogs, hamsters, birds, or other types of animals. In my latest Klepto Cat Mystery story, Rags (the cat) enjoys a special relationship with the family horse, Peaches.

Do you find that your cats are happier with another cat in the house? Certainly some cats don’t get along together. Or they tolerate each other–heaven-forbid they play together, but it could happen when you aren’t looking.

Hey, did you watch the Hallmark Channel Kitten Bowl? They showed some toys I haven’t seen before–one was a kitten ball–like a hamster ball and boy did those kittens have fun rolling around inside there.

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Mindful Monday – Have You Hugged Your Cat Today?

Alyzay and LilyHow do you show your cat affection? Some cat people just can’t keep their lips off an adorable kitty’s little head. It’s the human way of expressing love for our pet. But does this expression come across to your cat as love? Some behaviorists say that when you attempt to kiss your cat, she might recoil—fearing that you’re going to bite her. And most cats certainly don’t like being held in a bear hug.

When conveying affection to a cat, we really should consider what resonates with the cat. How does your cat tell you she loves you? Mostly, by using the head-bump and the body rub. Rubbing her scent all over you is her way of claiming you as her own—marking her territory.

Sure, she responds to your touch—she seems to like to be petted and caressed. Some cats, however, are extremely sensitive to the human touch and will let you know when she’s becoming over-stimulated, or has just had enough.

According to some, cats show love with a slow eye blink. Have you ever noticed your cat MomSmokeysitting across the room or even at your feet staring at you? If you look at her, she may blink. Try blinking slowly at her and see if she returns the show of affection.

I like to think that when Lily curls up in my lap on cool mornings, this is a display of her affection for me. But it could be simply Lily taking care of Lily’s creature comfort needs. When she brings me her stuffed toys, I’m sure it’s her way of showing me how much she loves me. Or is she simply showing off her hunting prowess or trying to teach me how to hunt?

Being human, we often try to personify our cats. It’s in our DNA to treat them like a small furry version of ourselves. In turn, the cat seems to treat us like large, hairless versions of herself. And we sort of meet in the middle and make the relationship work.

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Frivolous Friday – Working Like a Cat

LilyFebI’ve always been a cat-watcher. Well, they’re just so darned cute and interesting. And they have a lot to teach us. Have you ever watched a cat focus? They can flat out concentrate on one small thing forever as if they’re obsessed.

Writing, for me, is practically an obsession. It’s something I must do, love to do, and that I do as often as possible. When I first discovered this drive—this passion—for writing, I knew that if I was going to pursue it to the degree I desired, I’d have to figure out how to make it pay. So in 1973, I started writing articles for magazines. This, mind you, was before home computers and the convenience of email. Like a cat, I had to adjust to what was available at the time. Ever see your cat become obsessed with a small spot on the floor or a piece of cord and just play with it for hours? Even older cats continue some of their kitten-like antics.

I’m well into retirement age for most people now and I still pursue my writing. I write every single day for as many as twelve hours per day. So there’s your answer to “How do you have time to write six Klepto Cat Mystery novels per year?”

But, like a cat, I take breaks. Corporate leaders have learned that their employees are more Lily7Weeks 034productive when they get regular breaks. (Did they learn that from their household cats?) The “break room” is an integral part of every business large and small, everywhere. Some forward-thinking employers even provide gyms for their workers—or even just a ping pong table, memberships to a local gym and an additional forty-five minutes or hour lunch-break for a workout.

Cats show us that they like companionship—well most of them. Employers also want camaraderie among coworkers and they plan outings—picnics, field trips, bus trips to ball games and such.

Probably the most common belief about cats, however, is that they are independent. When you work independently at home, you must discipline yourself. Unless you have children or a nagging spouse, there’s no one to suggest you take a break. Likewise, there’s no one to insist that you sit down at your computer and work. It’s all on the home worker—in my case me, the writer.

marmaladeremodel-004I realize that my back and neck feel better if I take regular breaks—stretch, go for a walk—just move! And my mind works better when it gets breaks. A change in scenery and activity is often just what the doctor ordered.

All you have to do is watch a cat to learn this

Max and baby Lily

Max and baby Lily

truth. Cats can be intense while in pursuit of a moth, a toy, or, a meal. They rest regularly and often. While cats are purrfectly happy in their familiar comfort zone, they also love exploring something new. Cats always stretch after napping and wash up after eating. They pursue a variety of interests and activities throughout the day—watching birds, chasing birds, following someone around, ignoring everyone, playing, sleeping, pouncing, rolling, begging, tearing around the house, staring, chasing. They also divide their time between social activities and private moments.

Yeah, I think we have a lot to learn from our cats. What say you?

 

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Thoughts for Thursday – National Walk Your Pet Month

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February is National Walk Your Pet Month. I see a lot of dogs on leash (and off—which is a huge no-no). But even the dogs with unlawful owners are getting walked. They’re getting exercise and they’re being stimulated by new sights and sounds. Walking can give dogs the same benefit this activity gives you. In our area, I’ve even seen ponies being led through neighborhoods, sheep and goats on leash, and even some sort of big, colorful lizard. But what about taking your cat for a walk?

I’ve had cats who followed me when I’d go out for a walk. On those days, I’d walk close to 3 catsIMG_1977home—not wanting to lead my cat astray or into danger. I had one cat who didn’t mind wearing a harness and I’d often take her outside on a long leash with me. But I didn’t try to take her out for a walk. Rags, in my Klepto Cat Mystery stories is leash-trained. Well, I must say, he’s not actually trained. He often pulls his mistress, Savannah, in direction she doesn’t want to go—but usually for a very good reason. But he does wear a harness—in fact, he’s usually eager to climb into his harness when it’s presented—and he does go outside for supervised activity.

It’s not a totally uncommon practice to leash-train a cat. There were maybe two dozen or more cats at the Blog Paws/Cat Writers Conference in Arizona last year and all of them were contained—most in pet strollers and almost all of them wore harnesses and leashes. Some even walked the red carpet the night of our banquet to show off their evening clothes.

 

The boys checking out a bunny--on Christmas

The boys checking out a bunny–on Christmas

Yes, cats can be leash-trained. Well, that is some cats. We tried it with one kitten when he was about 10-weeks old and boy did he rebel. No matter the style of harness we put on him, he could flip right out of it. I believe there are better-made harnesses available today.

The main reason for “walk your pet month” is to raise awareness as to the importance of exercise for animals—it won’t hurt you, the owner any, either. Can’t walk? Ride your dog, iguana, pig, or pony around the block using your bicycle or your electric scooter.

Does your cat have access to the out of doors? Ours do not. So taking them out for a walk might be a good idea. However, then we’d be exposing our cats to fleas, and potential danger (loose dogs, for example).  And would they start darting out the door every chance they got? Currently, they’re contented to stay inside–no worries about them sneaking out (like my fictional character, Rags, does).

I walk every day. If I had a dog, he or she would be walking with me. But I’ve chosen to keep my cats indoors and provide them with climbing apparatus and other simulation in hopes that they are getting enough exercise. Obviously, I’m torn when it comes to taking a cat for a walk outside. How do you feel about it?

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Wild (and Sometimes Crazy) Wednesday – One Cat, Two Cats Three Cats, Four

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How many cats do you have? What is the highest number of cats you’ve had? What is the ideal number of cats for you? When do you become that crazy cat lady (or man)? When you have more than three cats? When you start dressing up your cats? When you take another chair because your cat is in your favorite one? When you start signing your cat’s name to your holiday cards? When you buy your cats Christmas presents? Or when you start traveling with your cat?

I’ve already been given a “Crazy Cat Lady” magnet and I use it to hold some of my cats’ pictures on the fridge. Sure, I have pictures of my human family, as well.

The most cats I’ve ever had at one time was probably 6 or 8. For me that was too many.

My ideal number of cats is two. Although much of my adult life has been spent with three

Lily and Sophie

Lily and Sophie

or four cats at a time. You know how it is: Sometimes there’s a need and you find a way to fulfill it by taking another cat or kitten in. Or you just fall in love with one and can’t say no.

But what about people who take on cat after cat after cat? There are cat hoarders, of course, and those who seem to border on being one. While some people can handle the numbers gracefully—they either have the space or create it somehow to accommodate all of the fur beings who come—others simply become freakishly overwhelmed. They open their heart to more cats than they can handle, perhaps fall ill and can’t take care of them physically or financially, but won’t relinquish them and don’t know how to ask for help. That’s when the litter boxes become gross, the feeding bowls are not washed, the water bowls are empty too often or allowed to become dirty, and some of the cats become ill and some die.

Neighborhood Garden Cat

Neighborhood Garden Cat

A hoarding situation is a sad reality for some. But my hat’s off to those who take on a colony, feed and watch over cats who find their way to their backdoor, or simply adopt cats in need, no matter the circumstances and the number of cats already accumulated. And who manage these animals well. And I honor those who know when they have more cats than they can comfortably handle and do something about it—something that benefits the cats. What would that be? It depends. Ideally, it would mean to find a way to make it work well for the cats. But it might mean putting the cat in a new situation with the help of a no-kill cat shelter.

Please, if you have cats who depend on you for sustenance, comfort, and love, do your best to provide all of the above. If you can’t take proper care of the cat, do what is necessary always—always with the cat in mind.

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Newsday Tuesday – Cats Considered the Rodney Dangerfield of Pets

George wants to know more about the Klepto Cat

A story in the Detroit Free Press claims that cats are the Rodney Dangerfield of pets: they get no respect. And the reporter follows that statement up with the fact that dogs see a veterinarian more often than cats do. One reason is that cats hide pain and illness better. Not a good thing for the well-being of a cat. Cats are more readily abandoned than dogs—because cats are thought to be able to fend for themselves. Hogwash. Well, okay, they are good hunters, they know how to manipulate a situation—perhaps worm their way into a new home or at least coerce someone into sharing their tuna sandwich. But is this any way for a cat to live? NO! They need protection from the weather and predators. They should feel the love of a heart, warmth of a hearth, and not have to stress over finding something to warm their tummy.

February is National Cat Health Month and National Pet Dental Health Month as well as

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National Spay/Neuter Awareness Month.  So gear up to celebrate. How? Let me count the ways. A good place to start, if you haven’t done so, is to take your cat to the vet for his or her little operation. There are programs in every community to help with the cost of the surgery.

If your cat has been taken care of in this area, and if she hasn’t seen her veterinarian in a while, now is a good time to let the two of them become acquainted.

Many cat owners take their cats to the vet only when there’s a problem. National Cat Health Month was designated to remind us to also get well checkups—make sure the cat is healthy (it’s easy to miss a problem especially with an outdoor kitty), have his teeth checked (evidently periodontal disease is common in cats), treat her for fleas and worms (these pests can interfere dramatically with the health of a cat), and get any inoculations that are due to prevent some of the more serious feline illnesses.

shady-011What will you learn at a well check-up? You may find out that your cat is healthy and you should continue caring for her as you have been. Or the vet might discover that she has anemia, a flea problem, ingrown claws, the beginnings of kidney disease or something else you didn’t expect or notice. Certainly, you don’t want to learn that your cat has a disease, but you also don’t want her to suffer without treatment that could be helping her—a change in diet, for example.

How long as it been since your cat has seen her veterinarian? If it’s been more than a year or if she’s showing signs of weakness, lethargy, or isn’t as interested in her food, isn’t using the litter box, or isn’t playing like she used to, make an appointment today. It’s for the love of your cat!

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Mindful Monday – Profile of a Storybook Cat

Smokey, AKA the Klepto Cat

Smokey, AKA the Klepto Cat

Most of you reading this blog have met Rags (aka Ragsdale), the starring cat in the Klepto Cat Mystery series. Did you know that the storybook Rags is patterned partly after my mother’s cat, Smokey and partly after my little girl kitty, Lily? Rags has Smokey’s confident personality, looks, and build. I’ve given Rags Lily’s interest in carrying things around in her mouth. Combining the two and taking some creative license, I created Rags, the curious, clever, kleptomaniac cat who causes readers to bite their nails with concern for him, laugh out loud at his antics, cringe a little, and smile when reading the Klepto Cat Mysteries.

Today, I want to introduce you to the real Smokey. momsmokeyxmas2013-006You can’t tell it from his picture, but he’s actually half Ragdoll. His purebred ragdoll mother, Angel, rejected the ragdoll male she was introduced to and found herself outside one chilly night in Idaho being courted by neighborhorhood suitor. The result was a litter of three mismatched kittens. Smokey was the only male and the only shorthair. One female was a ragdoll look-alike and the other a beautiful long-haired calico. The only ragdoll trait Smokey got was his way of sleeping—always all sprawled out.

Rags was destined to be my mother’s lap cat. That was her plan and the plan of the family who chose him for her. When he wasn’t in her lap, he would be lolling nearby in his bed, sitting quietly at her feet, or entertaining her. He would never go outside where danger lurks.

Smokey, however, had ideas of his own. The day he was hand-delivered to my mother in California by a family member, as a three-month-old kitten, he was determined to explore the great out-of-doors. He refused to comply with the house rules. He was happy to be in a loving home, but he was now large and in charge and he wanted to be an adventurer. The good news is, he’s nearly 7 years old and he’s still in one piece and healthy and, I must say, enjoying life.

SmokeyGibbsWhile he spends most of his time indoors, now (well, overnight, when it’s raining, when the gardeners are there, when it’s windy or when it’s cold), he demands his outdoor recreation anytime the sun’s out and the weather is pleasant. Along with his desire to be outside, he also has his own methods for entertaining my mother. His favorite one is to bring her gifts from the great outdoors—birds, lizards, once a baby gopher. He’s probably puzzled by her reaction. But he sure seems happy when she joins him in chasing after his catch when he turns it loose in the house. What a thoughtful cat.

PAWSitively Sinister, a Klepto Cat MysterySmokey also enjoys company. He has his favorites who drop SmokeyWPixby and that includes anyone who will give him treats. He likes riding around the house on Mama’s walker, sprawling in front of her chair in a sunny spot each morning, and sparring with their daily visitor—the neighborhood moocher, Gibbs.

In the meantime, Mama gets a big kick out of Rags’s (aka Smokey’s) antics in my Klepto Cat Mystery stories and seeing the pictures of him on the covers. She likes talking about her cat, the storybook star. And I like listening to the true-life adventures of Smokey. After all these tales give me new ideas for the Klepto Cat books.

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Frivolous Friday – Even an Author Needs Creative Outlets

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You would think that when you write for a living—when you spend every day all day creating stories or even articles—that activity would fulfill any creative urges. However, I’ve been writing for publication for 44 years and I’ve always felt a need to pursue other creative outlets as well. Humans are creative beings. I believe that our sense of creativity is so strong that when someone isn’t creating something useful—using their hands and mind to craft, improve, or produce—they tend to create havoc and disorder.

Some people are of the mindset that being creative means crafting beautiful things. But I believe that human creativity is displayed in the way we live, think, and act—beautiful and not so beautiful. But that’s a concept for another time and place. In fact, I once outlined a book on the topic—couldn’t get a publisher.

Today, I want to talk about the author and his/her need for creative outlets—a change of smokey-004pace and a respite for the brain. First, let’s remember that the author does a lot of sitting. Hours of sitting in the same position is hard on a skeleton. And, while the brain is certainly being exercised, it is being led down the same road, being used in the same way for hours and hours each day. For me, a different creative outlet is vital to the health of my soul and my primary work.

So what creative outlets do I pursue? Something that will challenge my body and my brain in a totally different way and make me smile. I also love to receive a reward for my efforts. Gardening has always been a good outlet for me. I used to pursue needlework. At Christmastime, I did a lot of beading work and hand-sewing. Walking has always been part of my therapy for mind and body and I continue walking today…with a twist. I often carry my camera along. Photography has become a wonderful distraction. In the process, I’m paying more attention to local wildlife, in particular birds. To see some of my fun bird pictures, visit my personal facebook page. http://www.facebook.com/patricia.fry.165

What is your creative outlet? Do you create beautiful things? Treat yourself to uplifting reading or music? Challenge your body and mind in some interesting way—through dance, rowing, swimming, meditation walking, a gym workout, skiing…we all need to be moving, you know.

Remember, you are constantly creating—what is the end result from your efforts?

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Thoughts for Thursday – About Merriment, Mayhem, and Meows—Book 21

Merriment-cover webI’d like to officially announce the 21st book in the Klepto Cat Mystery Series. Merriment, Mayhem, and Meows.

In this story, Iris’s new B&B opens and Rags’s paw-picks an array of lovely cuddle cats for overnight guests to enjoy. But it isn’t long before pandemonium sets in. What is sending some guests packing and others wanting more? Is the old inn haunted or is the mayhem caused by something more sinister? Rags attends his first book singing and leaves more than his paw-tograph behind. Expect loads of kitty-cat action in this book! And beware, Rags is more charming, amusing, and cunning than ever.

We’ve had two reviews for this book already: One reader says, “It’s such a pleasure to read a well written, fun, and easy to read series.” She says she could be friends with my cast of characters.

You know, I think that’s one thing that draws me into my office day after day to write. I love my characters and want to spend time with them.

Another reviewer says my stories will make you laugh out loud and cry in the same story. Love it! Sometimes I find myself laughing as I write or blotting at a tear.

Order the print and/or Kindle version at amazon.com here:

https://www.amazon.com/Merriment-Mayhem-Meows-Klepto-Mystery/dp/0997519096/ref=sr_1_13?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1485434287&sr=1-13&keywords=klepto+cat+mysteries

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Wild (and Sometimes Crazy Wednesday) – Secrets to the Klepto Cat Success

Merriment-cover webWe’ve just published both the print and Kindle version of Klepto Cat Mystery Book 21, Merriment, Mayhem, and Meows. Order your copy at amazon.com.

People who don’t write are often curious about people who do. They’re interested in how authors work, live, entertain themselves—what they read, if they have creative outlets, and so forth. The question I get most often is, “How do you come up with so many story ideas?”

Now that’s a legitimate question for someone who has trouble putting a grocery list together or who has never written anything beyond a thank you note or letter. But my response generally doesn’t satisfy people. They still can’t wrap their head around the concept that someone can pound out six books per year—over 300,000 words every twelve months. Plus another 80,000 words of blog posts. Not to mention all of the promotion material an author produces…So we’re probably talking more like 500,000 words per year or more than ten million words over the five years I’ve been writing the Klepto Cat Mysteries.  Yeah, that’s pretty much a foreign concept to most people.

So what do I say to those who ask how I come up with so many different stories and lilywritingIMG_1705scenarios for books featuring cats? It’s a puzzle to me. You might also wonder how I come up with posts for this blog five times a week—now numbering 500 posts. The ideas just come to me. I sit down to write a post or a story, often having no clue as to what I’ll write, and soon I’m deeply involved in fleshing out a theme or a story or a mystery.

Most of the people who ask me this question—“How do you come up with so many stories about cats?”—have read my Klepto Cat Mysteries. Lately, I’ve had this question from people who have not read any of them. And I recently discovered they were asking this from a totally different perspective. These folks thought my books were cat-driven—that the cats talked and thought and that they propelled the story. No wonder they were confused. How would you write an entire novel for adults—let alone 21 novels—completely based on a cast of cats?

Actually, my stories are not cat-driven, they are human-driven. There are a variety of interesting human characters in the Klepto Cat Mysteries—the mainstay characters, Savannah and Michael, a married couple of veterinarians; Margaret (Maggie) Savannah’s sometimes cantankerous aunt; interesting friends and family; and, of course, Craig Sledge, a no-nonsense, softie of a detective—among other characters who pop in and out of the stories.

The starring cat is Rags, a klepto who loves to be involved in whatever’s going on and often throws a wrench in the works. The detective has learned to rely on Rags’s instincts and sometimes calls on him to help with a case. Since Rags is a cat, Detective Craig Sledge has to deal with feline behavior—a bit elevated at times—but feline behavior, none-the-less.

So, while Rags and his feline, canine, and even equine friends play important roles in the Klepto Cat Mysteries, the stories are told from the human characters’ point of view. There are no talking cats and no cats with their own point of view—except that which is implied through their actions.

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Lily Likes Books

So how do I come up with fresh material for so many stories? If I figure that out, I may bottle it. I suppose it has to do with my training as a freelance article writer. In order to create enough fresh article ideas to earn a living, you really must pay attention to what’s going on around you—to see a story in every encounter and experience. I’ve lived long enough to have had a lot of experiences and I’ve observed, read, been entertained by countless scenarios of all kinds. So I imagine these are all inside me somewhere. Is that where imagination comes from?

I believe that my thoughts that end up as part of my stories are a mix of  truth and imagination. Those who write fantasy probably dig deeper inside their imagination to flesh out their stories. My stories seem to reflect the fact that I’m fairly center-brained, as opposed to operating exclusively from the right brain or the left brain. So you’ll see a lot of truth in my stories. I’m also a teacher at heart and I can’t seem to help sprinkling my stories with the positive values I cherish. I’m often commended for that. And I’ve always had a fascination and admiration for cats. I adore writing about them, and helping others to understand and appreciate them.

So how do I come up with so many stories? It’s still a bit of a mystery to me. But I plan to keep priming the creative pump and let the creative juices flow as long as it is in me to write these entertaining stories.

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