Cats, and Even Kittens, as Teachers

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All is well with the kitties in the Fry household. Max’s health scare is resolved (for the moment), little Lily is thriving—it is so much fun having a kitten around again—and Sophie, our 4-year-old formerly feral tortie, loves having her to play with. Max can’t stand the kitten. Grumpy old (11 years) man that he is, this formerly feral cat has no tolerance for the likes of a kitten who loves to cuddle with his mom (me), and who regularly disturbs his sleep in all of his favorite hiding places.

Lily has more friends than I do at this point. We yearn for a sociable cat, having had hidey cats for so long, so we invite all of the “cat people” we know to come play with her anytime they want. You can see, by the photo I chose for this blog, how well-loved she is by friends of all ages. This is 2-year-old Alyzay with her. Despite the look of concern on Lily’s face in this picture, these two have a marvelous time playing together.

Yesterday, a friend brought Lily and her housemates catnip and treats. Even Sophie came out of hiding to get in on the goodies and she even allowed a little petting.

When we rescued Sophie, she was 10 weeks old and had been living in a cat colony in a nearby town. At the time, we had a purrfectly sociable cat (we called Winfield the greeter) and Max, also formerly feral and afraid of all shadows and sounds. We hoped that Sophie would learn from Winfield, but she ended up following Max into the hidey holes when guests came.

Now, however, it seems that Lily is teaching Sophie a few of her tricks—show yourself, be cute and you will get lots of attention and even treats. Sophie is actually getting better. This week, she came out in plain sight to observe the play habits of a 4-year-old visitor. I think she’s learning that little people often drop food and, having come from the streets, she is a real scavenger. She particularly loves Cheez Its and string cheese.

If you enjoy true stories, reminiscences and commentary about cats and kittens, you will love my latest book, Catscapades, Tales of Ordinary and Extraordinary Cats. Order your copy here only: It’s in print or ebook form. www.matilijapress.com/catscapades.html.

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A Cat With a Big Heart

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It has been a bit of a feline circus around here these past two weeks. Eight-week old Lily is a pure delight. We have so enjoyed having a kitten around again. That is, all of us except Max. We don’t know if she is the cause or not, but our 11-year old formerly feral kitty has been sick. And, from all that I read, it could be stress-related.

Lily came to us two weeks ago—she was supposed to be 8-weeks old. But the vet tells us that she was only 6-weeks and, before she would administer her inoculations, she wanted the kitten to grow and age a little more. Well, I thought she was awfully small, but it has been a while since I’ve been around a very young kitten. Why didn’t the owner know how old her kittens were? I guess because she had so many. She thought she had 13 kittens (from 3 mother cats), but actually found 2 more this week. She thought they were all born around mid March. But Lily’s litter, it seems didn’t arrive until around April 1.

Okay, so a few days after we brought Lily home, Max started vomiting and gagging. He went off his food and he began to drool and hang his tongue out. Of course, we took him to the vet. He spent a week getting examined, observed, poked, ex rayed and force-fed. Initially, the vet (and I) thought he had a hairball lodged somewhere. Ex rays proved us wrong. What the vet did find, however, was that Max had a very red throat and that he has an enlarged heart and some sort of kink in his esophagus. She wasn’t too concerned about his heart because she could not hear anything irregular through the stethoscope.

When Max didn’t seem to perk up, however, and when he still wasn’t eating on his own after almost a week, I went online. I discovered that stress can cause a cat with an enlarged heart to have symptoms such as Max had—even the red throat, from stomach acids coming up into the throat. And I found this tidbit—“sometimes it can be uncomfortable for a cat with an enlarged heart to lean down to eat, so they go off their food.”

That’s when we got the idea to elevate his food and water. We set his bowls up on a little stool, kept Max isolated (that meant he got to sleep on my bed all day and night) and the very next evening, he started eating and he has been eating his usual amount every day since—about 7 days.

He’s still not crazy about the kitten, but, as you can see in the photo, they have established their pecking order. She’s a bit of a tease and he’s a grumpy old man without much tolerance—they’re similar to Dennis the Menace and Mr. Wilson.

There is another cat in the household—the middle child. Sophie, 4, still has a lot of kitten in her and she and Lily romp and play like crazy around here. It is so much fun to watch them.

Is there anyone out there who has a cat with an enlarged heart? I guess it is rare that you would discover this unless there is an irregular heartbeat or an ex ray is called for. I’d like to hear your stories and your remedies. I’m a little concerned this morning as Max, who has been doing beautifully, lost his breakfast all over the carpet. I hope we aren’t back to square one with him.

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Crystal is a hard working therapy cat. She had to pass a temperament test and do ten hours of visits to qualify. Her good looks, of course, come naturally.

She visits the mental health unit at Sequoia Hospital in Redwood City, California for Love on a Leash. The poor therapy dogs are intimidated by Crystal in her stroller, so they visit another day. Just as well, more attention for Crystal.

Crystal earns advanced degrees for every fifty hours she works. After seven years, she has enough hours for five degrees! Currently her official title is Crystal, ThC, e:sv. That stands for Therapy Cat, specializing in elderly people, social visits. The hospital posts her picture and copies of her degrees in the activity room so everyone can see them.

Crystal lives with Janice and Florence (Janice’s Mom). When Janice’s Dad was in the nursing home, Crystal was a constant visitor and comfort. Dad would get agitated as the evening went by, knowing Crystal had to leave. He could hardly wait for morning so she could sit on his bed all day.

The doctors and nurses look forward to Crystal’s arrival just like the patients do. Sometimes when Crystal’s special friends know they are dying, they ask to see her one more time. She always obliges.

The nurses got Crystal a special gift once and presented it during the annual volunteer awards ceremony. It is a couch, just her size. The three pillows across the back are made from photos the nurses took of Crystal during visits.

Crystal doesn’t limit herself to visiting—she also models. One photographer uses her pictures (16×20 size) in coffee shops in San Mateo. Crystal made time to be in the 4th of July parade where the judges were wowed by her flag costume—her picture made the front page of the newspaper.

Cats just don’t get the recognition they need and deserve—but Crystal’s working on it.

For more information on therapy pets, go to http://www.loveonaleash.org .

Contributed by Sandra Murphy, a writer and the editor of SPAWNews.

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Meet Lily

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It’s kitten season. Kittens are showing up everywhere—most of all in animal shelters. It’s always a good time to adopt/rescue a cat. And right now, you will likely have a wide choice of colors and styles in kittens of all sizes and temperaments.

We adopted Lily last week. Isn’t she a dear? My daughter has a friend whose 3 female barn cats gave birth to 13 kittens this spring. She brought me 2 of them for Mother’s Day. And we were prepared to keep them both, despite the fact that we have two adult cats. But before we could name the kittens, my daughter called to say that all of the other kittens had found homes and there was a woman still wanting one of the kittens. We decided to relinquish one of them—but which one?

We chose the pastel tabby and my daughter took the little calico to the woman. I’d never seen a litter of kittens disappear so quickly—let alone 3 litters. I can only hope that they are all in good situations.

I kept remarking how tiny these kittens are. But figured that I’d just forgotten what an 8-week old kitty looks like. Well, we took Lily to the vet yesterday for the first in her series of vaccines and, guess what? She isn’t 8 weeks old. She is probably only 6 weeks, according to Linda, the veterinarian. Yikes, we’re cradle robbers.

Lily is eating well and using the litter box. I remember with kittens past all sorts of digestive problems as they adjusted to solid food. But now, they have food engineered specifically for kittens and this one—even though she’s awfully young—is doing fabulously on Fancy Feast kitten food.

We were hoping for a friendly, greeter-type kitty this time after living with formerly feral, hidey cats for so many years. And, so far, she is proving to be a real social butterfly. She hears voices and she’s there in the midst of people—any people.

We hope to have many enjoyable years with this little darling. If you have given any thought to adopting a furry friend, this is a great time to give yourself the gift of kitten joy.

My sister-in-law thinks that it is my Catscapades book of cat stories that prompted both her and I to get kittens this year. Read Catscapades, Tales of Ordinary and Extraordinary Cats and see if it has the same effect on you. http://www.matilijapress.com/catscapades.html

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Cats regard humans as warm-blooded furniture.

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This quote is attributed to Jacquelyn Mitchard.

Does your cat sit on your lap at every opportunity throughout the year or does she just curl up with you during cooler weather, at certain times throughout the day or not at all?

Some cats are not cuddlers. Some cats cuddle only with certain of their people. And then there are those who will sit next to you, at your feet, on your keyboard, but never, NEVER on your lap.

Our formerly feral tortie, Sophie, will curl up on my lap anytime I am sitting down. That is in any weather situation, anytime, with or without invitation. But I’m the only one whose lap she’ll use.

Max, our formerly feral pretty boy, sits on my lap in the living room only when it is very cold (and when Sophie isn’t already there). But he cuddles with me every single morning in my office while I am trying to start my work day. Again, I’m the only one who has the honor of supporting his 16 pounds on my lap.

I used to have a cat who never ever sat on my lap, but she loved to sit next to me—close—with one paw on my leg. She was always touching me. The calico in the photo this morning, as you can see, was a lap sitter. She didn’t care whose lap it was or even if it was a warm lap. Neither did she care who else was in the lap. When she wanted lap time, she would just scooch right in and join whatever cat was already there. This is a photo of Dinah enjoying the lap of a dummy we made for a local production of “Arsenic and Old Lace.”

What are your cats’ lap habits? Are they starting to stretch out on the cool floor in front of a fan, on these warmer days, or do they still hunt down laps?

Speaking of fans, our Himalayan, Katy, loved them. She’s the only cat I’ve ever known who liked to go face-to-face with a fan. Her favorite place on a hot day was in the windowsill in front of the swamp cooler. It was hilarious to watch her sit there as contented as could be with her long fur blowing ferociously in the strong wind of the cooler. Sure wish I’d taken a picture of that.

Send me your comments about your lap-sitting or fan-loving cat.

And be sure to order your copy of Catscapades, Tales of Ordinary and Extraordinary Cats. http://www.matilijapress.com/catscapades.

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It’s Kitten Season

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It’s kitten season. I know one woman locally who has thirteen (13) kittens in her attic. There are three mom cats caring for the litters. Let’s hope that she adopts out all of the kittens to responsible people who will have them spayed/neutered and that she takes the mother cats in, as well. Otherwise, she could have as many as 45 kittens this time next year—more if the mother cats have another heat cycle in the fall.

It’s mind boggling, isn’t it? Kittens can sure multiply when no one is paying any attention. And there just doesn’t seem to be enough homes to go around. We’ve all seen the figures reflecting the number of homeless cats and those that are ultimately put down because there is no one interested in adopting them. Sad, sad, sad.

Well, I am going to visit the 13 kittens this weekend and chances are, I’ll reserve one of two of them. They won’t be ready to go to new homes for another few weeks. If there’s anyone else living in the Ventura County, CA area who would like to consider rescuing one of these kitties, email me at plfry620@yahoo.com.

In the meantime, if you have a smidgeon of room in your home and your heart, rescue a cat or kitten. Have your animals spayed/neutered. And donate time or money to the animal shelter or rescue facility of your choice regularly.

And for a delightful read, order Patricia Fry’s book, Catscapades, Tales of Ordinary and Extraordinary Cats. http://www.matilijapress.com/catscapades.html

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Happy Birthday to Max

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Happy Birthday to Max, Happy Birthday to Max.

Yup, he’s 11 years old already and he’s fighting all of the fanfare. Actually, I think he would rather be remembered as a svelte young cat, as is reflected in the photo of him in the last blog post, April 14, 2009, and those accompanying his stories in Catscapades, Tales of Ordinary and Extraordinary Cats. Here, he looks more like the grumpy old man cat that he is.

In Catscapades, Tales of Ordinary and Extraordinary Cats, you can read how Max used to spend his days, which is a far cry from how he lives his life today—snuggling under the blankets in the bed by day and sleeping on the end of the bed on his cozy afghan by night. He just reminded me that he does help in my office when he feels like it. He’s the chief paperweight—a task that he has perfected. He keeps me alert by hiding my pen when I’m not looking. Usually, I find it in the waste basket. He’s a good shot. He also keeps a close eye on the birds outside the office window, making sure no one gets more than his fair share of the seed. And he makes sure that I get regular breaks during the early morning hours when he’s on duty, by walking or standing in front of my computer screen at regular intervals.

Max and I have been together since we rescued him from the wild life when he was only a wee kitten. I should have known that he would be a bit of a challenge when I saw him use his mother’s food plate as a litterbox one day. Sigh!

But when we commit to a cat, we love him no matter what, right? And we’ve loved Max for 11 years and counting. So Happy Birthday Big Guy.

Learn more about Max and about 40 other cats in Catscapades, Tales of Ordinary and Extraordinary Cats. The only place you can get it is through Matilija Press at http://www.matilijapress.com/catscapades.html. Order your ebook or comb bound book today. It will affect you.

My sister-in-law called this week to tell me that reading the book made her want to get another cat and she is currently trying to adopt one through her local humane society. Others comment that the stories are uplifting. Those who don’t have cats say they have a greater appreciation for cats since reading the book.

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This is Max

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This is Max. Not only is he prominent in my book, Catscapades, Tales of Ordinary and Extraordinary Cats, he is a member of the tenor section in Simon Teakettle’s Mewsical Society.

Max is a formerly feral kitty. We found him and his two sisters living with their adolescent mother cat in our woodshed one spring 11 years ago. Read about how and why we captured Max and his sisters and our eleven years of adventures with Max in our home.

He’s currently sitting on my lap directing this blog. He wants me to point out how handsome he is—but then, you can see that for yourself.

Order your copy of Catscapades, Tales of Ordinary and Extraordinary Cats today and learn about some of Max’s skills, quirks, habits and adventures. http://www.matilijapress.com/catscapades.html.

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Meet Smokey

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This is my mom’s cat, Smokey. We think he is at least part Maine coon. He is one of a handful of cats and kittens that have emerged from the barranca behind my parents’ house over the years. My dad used to say that there was a whole village of cats living in the barranca, each just waiting their turn to move in. For years, whenever one of my parents’ beloved cats crossed over the rainbow bridge, another one would show up.

Smokey has been happily with my mom now for about ten years. And they have a pretty good feline-human understanding of their relationship and how each of them fits into it. As any cat person knows, if the cat is happy, everyone is happy and Mama has learned how to keep Smokey happy. He doesn’t have rich tastes or unique demands. As long as he can enjoy chards of sunlight rippling across his back each morning, quiet time on a padded chair in the backyard every warm afternoon, petting on demand and dinner served on time, Smokey is content.

He does rebel a little when his comfort zone is interrupted. He can’t understand why Mama won’t make the rain stop when he wants to go out to chase lizards and butterflies. And he really, really hates it when the wind blows because this always means a bad hair day for Smokey.

On pages 74-75 of Catscapades, Tales of Ordinary and Extraordinary Cats, you’ll find a story about Smokey. I call it, “The Tale of Smokey’s Tail.” Smokey has an extraordinary tail—it is very Maine coon cat-like in that it is long, full and quite expressive. But there was a time when Smokey lost the use of his tail and almost the tail itself.

Order your copy of Catscapades, Tales of Ordinary and Extraordinary Cats today and read “The Tale of Smokey’s Tail,” along with stories about traveling cats; working cats; intuitive, spiritual and rowdy cats. Throughout the pages of this book, I feature stories and vignettes of colony cats, strays, adventuring cats and ferals. You’ll meet a cat that changed a heart and two cats whose hearts changed. Learn about communicating cats, orphaned cats and cats who were rescued against serious odds. If you love cats, find them interesting or even fascinating, you will enjoy the true stories in this delightful book.

Place your order here: http://www.matilijapress.com/catscapades.html. Or contact me at PLFry620@yahoo.com

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Frigie FryPan Kitty–the Saga Continues

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Those of you who have read the story of Frigie FryPan in my book, Catscapades, Tales of Ordinary and Extraordinary Cats, know that he is no ordinary cat. Oh no, he is definitely one of the extraordinary cats. (Actually, most people who see this book challenge my title, saying that there is no such thing as an “ordinary” cat.)

As you can see from this photo, Frigie is curious. He wants to explore and experience everything that’s available to him just as fast and furious as he can. I have not met this cat—my grand-cat—yet, but it sounds to me as if he has the cat version of ADD. My daughter’s frequent phone calls, these days, always start out with something like this, “You’ll never guess what Frigie did today.” And she’s right, I never can guess. His antics are just too bizarre and mostly uncatlike.

This picture shows Frigie the day he helped clean the stove. Last week, he set out to more closely examine the large bags of kitty litter that my daughter bought on sale. She placed them safely on top of the large freezer in their garage. But, in this household, there are no “safe” places. In his spare time, which Frigie seems to have too much of, he discovered the kitty litter and proceeded to open the bags, which created a lovely “sand” fall cascading down the freezer and onto the floor. I’m sure this kept him entertained for a good while. Needless to say, my daughter didn’t appreciate his handiwork when she saw the sandy mess.

My daughter once bought some pies for a special occasion and set them up out of reach of any normal cat—who would not be interested in pies, in the first place. But Frigie, as I said, is not a normal cat and he thought the pies were for him. So he just helped himself. Sometimes he shares his finds with the other, less creative, cat and the short-legged dogs. Like, for example, the doggie bag of steak (or was it ribs) that the family brought home one night.

Frigie could keep people entertained (and other cats intrigued) by his antics through a blog of his own, don’t you think? In the meantime, read about him in Catscapades, Tales of Ordinary and Extraordinary Cats. On pages 38-40, I tell about his catnapping ordeal. Yes, two catnappers grabbed him, put him in a sewing machine case and drove off. It wasn’t long, however, before they tired of him and brought him back. My daughter and granddaughter were delighted to see their Frigie come back to them. Now, they aren’t quite so sure it was a good thing. He is more of a handful than they ever expected.

What other cat do you know who loves to nap inside the refrigerator or a clean frying pan on top of the stove? Frigie does. He also likes to be involved in the morning shower routines, see what’s cooking in the oven and ride on the back of a horse.

Read more about Frigie and 40 other cats in Catscapades, Tales of Ordinary and Extraordinary Cats. Order your copy here: http://www.matilijapress.com/catscapades.html

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