Newsday Tuesday—Training Your Cat Part 2

Penny lap bestWe introduced Bobbi Florio Graham yesterday in Part 1 of this series. She mentioned her current cat, Penny. QT Penny (Quattro Teakettle) is her fourth cat since she adopted Simon Teakettle, the owner of her company, in 1972. As she says, “I added Q.T. for Quattro Teakettle, in honor of Terzo, who was Simon Teakettle III. But I realized it could also mean “Cutie” and I often call her Cutie Pie as well as Cutie Penny.”

And Penny is a cutie—that’s her in the photo.
To remind you, Barbara (Bobbi) Florio Graham won the $1,000 Sticky Paws award for best article on training at the Cat Writers’ Association annual conference in 2002. Here’s Bobbi’s blog post:

Every cat is different, and training methods have to be adapted to that animal’s individual personality.

I adopted the first Simon Teakettle when he was 18 months old. It was clear he’d been hit by a rolled-up newspaper, perhaps when he tried to dash through the door, because he was startled any time he heard the rustling of any paper.

I didn’t have that problem with the second or third Simon Teakettles, whom I raised from kittens, but Simon II (Tiki) was a part-Siamese feral, who presented distinct challenges.

I’ve never encountered a cat so smart! I had to buy him new toys and invent new games just to keep him occupied, as he was easily bored.

Simon III (Terzo) was the opposite. A black and white sweetheart, he was placid and cuddly, eager to please and willing to learn.

He’s the cat featured in the video which has received much praise from animal behaviorists. It’s at: http://lnkd.in/fKsbhH

I found Q.T. Penny at a local shelter in February of 2015. She was a year old, had been a stray, and was still pretty skittish when I brought her home. But she already knew her name, and began to come when I called her within the first few days.

It’s confusing to change the name of an older cat. I added Q.T. (for Quattro Teakettle) and she now responds to both “Q.T.” and “Penny.”

I start with “Come here,” and only call Penny when she will receive a reward for obeying.

It helps when you call the cat when you have full dish in your hand! I began by calling Penny to her tray when I fed her, and gradually began to insist that she sit by her tray in order for me to put the food dish down.

Now when she wants her wet food, all I have to do is say “Sit by your tray,” and she goes there, sits, and waits for me to bring the dish to her.

I always begin training using dry cat food, and only move to treats much later, when I start to teach special behaviors. I believe strongly in positive reinforcement, and my experience has been that cats react to praise and petting.

There are a couple of important things to remember. Always use the cat’s name when you praise him or her, and never when scolding. I always reinforce good behavior with “Good girl.” For any behavior I want to discourage, I employ a very loud and sharp “No!” accompanied by a loud noise, usually clapping my hands.

It’s important for every pet new to the household to learn “Sit” and “Stay,” and cats should be leash-trained, even if you never plan to let them go outside. It’s a matter of safety, in case you ever have to leave quickly without time to put the cat into a carrier.

In Part Three, I’ll discuss other commands, and the importance of consistency.

Barbara Florio Graham is an author and publishing consultant whose business is named after The Cat Who Owns the Company. Her website: http://SimonTeakettle.com contains Simon Teakettle’s blog, fan club, and a great deal of information about cats (as well as many other subjects). Here’s the link to the training article: http://SimonTeakettle.com/training.htm To learn the interesting story about how Simon Teakettle got his name, go to http://SimonTeakettle.com/simont.htm

 

 

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Mindful Monday—Training Your Cat: Part 1

 

pennysitToday, I’m thrilled to introduce guest blogger Barbara (Bobbi) Florio Graham. Bobbi won the $1,000 Sticky Paws award for best article on training at the Cat Writers’ Association annual conference in 2002. Follow the link to that article at the end of this post. Here’s Bobbi’s story:

I grew up with dogs that my father carefully trained, as well as outdoor cats who came and went as they pleased, and were just picked up and put outside if they misbehaved. That led me to see if I could train a cat
like a dog. I think we underestimate the ability of all animals, expecting them to understand and communicate the way we do.

Dogs are pack animals, used to accepting direction. Cats are independent, but will learn to do whatever ends up in a reward they want. As I point out in the article, respect for the animal is key, along with repetition and consistency. An owner who uses the cat’s name to scold him or her is sending the wrong message. If I call my cat by her name, “Penny,” she knows it’s for something good, and therefore she’ll always come, even if she’s
sound asleep in a favorite hiding place.

I believe in training because cats are so often surrendered for
behaviors they could very easily have been trained not to perform:
missing the litterbox, scratching furniture, biting, jumping onto tables
or kitchen counters, etc.

I want to live with a companion who respects me and behaves in a way
that makes things easier for both of us.

Part 2 of the Training Your Cat series will be posted tomorrow. Be sure to tune in and learn about Bobbi’s first experiences with cat training and tips you can use with your own cats.

Here is the link to her original article on this topic: http://SimonTeakettle.com/training.htm

Barbara Florio Graham is an author and publishing consultant whose business is named after The Cat Who Owns the Company. Her website: http://SimonTeakettle.com contains Simon Teakettle’s blog, fan club, and a great deal of information about cats (as well as many other subjects).

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Frivolous Friday–Educated Cats

LillyMothersDay2009 008My cat-a-day calendar today shares a cat curled up on a book with a caption about how smart some cats are. It says that kittens learn skills like hunting and grooming by watching their mother. According to this writer/researcher, cats have the ability to store both long-term and short-term memories and can be trained to perform certain tasks.

Monday through Wednesday of next week (June 13-15) guest blogger, Barbara Florio Graham will share her experiences training her cats over many years. Here are a few questions she’ll respond to in her posts:

  • Why does she train her cats?
  • Are some cats harder to work with than others? Why?
  • What are some of her specific methods of training?
  • Is the smarter cat easier or more difficult to train?
  • Can anyone learn to train a cat?

Just as with most processes, there are several methods and reasons for training a cat. 026There are tricks for toilet training your cat. Speaking of tricks, some people train their cat to perform tricks such as giving a high five, jumping through a hoop, sitting up, etc.. In fact, there’s a traveling cat circus I’d like to catch sometime. There’s behavior modification training for cats who have forgotten their manners or never learned any. Many trainers use clickers to modify their pet behavior—yes, even with cats. You might find it interesting to know that Barbara does not use a clicker.

If you’d like to learn more about your cat, cat behavior, and how to gently train your cat to perform certain tasks and behaviors, be sure to read the June 13, 14 and 15 blog posts right here.

If you’re interested in the cat circus, there are cats performing over the next few months in Portland, Seattle, Colorado and Minnesota. Here’s the link: http://circuscats.com/schedule.html#.V1qsv6KQq_o

 

 

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Thoughts for Thursday—Your Cats’ BFFs

dinah-dummyCats have a reputation for being aloof—rather unapproachable, standoffish, and even snooty. But if you’ve had many cats, you know that at least some of them can be quite friendly, even affectionate. This is especially evident when kitty is hungry or she’s requesting some sort of favor (“let me out,” “I want to sit in your lap,” “give me a bite of your chicken,” etc.).

Cats, however, will develop a friendship—sometimes a love affair—with a particular person. There are two of us in our household, and our cats will typically choose one or the other of us sometime after they arrive to live here. While they’re cordial and dependent on both of us, they will select one to be their BFF.

Now what about visitors? Does your cat welcome them or hide from them? Most of our cats have been hidey cats and I’m pretty sure they’ve learned this behavior from each other. Our Himalayan, Katy, was from a kitten mill, so I doubt she was introduced to many people before I found the darling at a pet shop. She became attached to me and was not about to let anyone else in on our sweet relationship—no how, no way. She was mine and I was hers.

Most of our subsequent cats were from feral backgrounds and were naturally skittish when LilyTwinsit came to strangers. A stranger was anyone who came to the house, no matter how often they came, unless they spent the night. Max, for example, ran every time the doorbell rang. But if the guest stayed longer than six or eight hours, he decided they were okay and he’d allow them to see him, pet him, and even hold him, if they so desired. Lily, on the other hand, although she’s still wary of adult visitors, she has always adored children. Go figure.

Katy, the Himalayan, was afraid of everyone outside of those of us who lived here, until the time our next door neighbors came in for a visit. She had no fear of them and it finally occurred to me that she was used to seeing them through the window as she sat on my desk every day. She knew them and felt comfortable with them even the first time they came into our house.

My mother’s cat, Smokey (the cat I patterned the star in my Klepto Cat Mysteries after) is okay with all visitors, but there are a few he adores—I mean, he absolutely adores. One is their next door neighbor woman who comes to visit occasionally. He will sit or lay in front of her and just gaze in her direction the whole time she’s there. The other is my niece who spends the night with my mother regularly. Smokey seems to know when she’s coming for the evening as he will wait at the window and get excited when he sees her pull up. He greets her at the door and hangs close to her for petting. My mother was afraid she was losing her beloved cat’s affections to my niece. But she will tell us with a sense of pride, “He won’t get in her lap. He only climbs up in my lap.”

Cats aloof, distant? Nonsense. While our cats don’t wiggle excitedly when they see us or show their teeth as if smiling, like one of my grand dogs does, it’s hard to deny that when Lily curls up in my lap or bumps me with her head or just wants to be with me, that isn’t pure affection.

Announcement: Next week: June 13-15, Barbara Florio Graham will be GUEST BLOGGER on the topic of training your cat. Barbara won the $1,000 Sticky Paws award for the best article on training your cat in the 2002 Cat Writer’s Association writing competition. You’re going to be blown away to read how she trains her own cats and I couldn’t help but ask the question, why? Don’t miss this series of guest blogs.

 

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Wild and Sometimes Crazy Wednesday—Home Decorating Around a Cat

oaktreealylily-028Often we don’t think ahead when we decorate our home. We move in, happy with our surroundings, then decide to adopt a cat and realize we’ve done something wrong. Suddenly, you have a kitten climbing the drapes and clawing the needlepoint chair. The black Persian quickly becomes attached to your cream-colored sofa and the white cat can’t resist leaving her fur all over the plum-colored settee.

You know that lamp you adore with all of the shiny crystals dangling from around the shade? Well, Puss-Puss is going to love batting at those pretties. She’ll also enjoy playing Jungle-Baby amongst the potted trees you’ve so carefully cultivated. And you might as well pack away your satin bed spread because, after a few months or weeks with cats lounging and playing on it, it’ll be ready for the rag bag.

Some cats have their own ideas about home decorating. Our Lily, for example, is most happy when surrounded by her favorite toys. And I guess she thinks that makes me happy, too, as she spends a good part of the morning bringing me her stuffed animals along with my socks and placing them strategically around me as I work in my office.

Your wardrobe might change once you bring home a cat. Tip: Choose either a light-colored LilySockor a dark-colored cat—not both. Why? The light-colored cat fur will show up more on your dark-colored clothes and the dark cat fur will be evident on your light-colored clothes. If you have issues with shedding, while a short-hair cat seems like a better choice than a Persian or Maine coon or Angora, for example, I have to tell you that some short-haired cats shed like crazy. Here are additional tips for animal-friendly decorating.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/decor-aid/pet-friendly-home-decor-d_b_10260336.html?utm_hp_ref=cats

Announcement: Next week: June 13-15, Barbara Florio Graham will be GUEST BLOGGER on the topic of training your cat. Barbara won the $1,000 Sticky Paws award for the best article on training your cat in the 2002 Cat Writer’s Association writing competition. You’re going to be blown away to read how she trains her own cats and I couldn’t help but ask the question, why? Don’t miss this series of guest blogs.

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Newsday Tuesday—Cats on the Move

SyCatIMG_1844Today I’d like to talk about moving cats from one place to another against his or her will. I mean, what cat would consent to packing up and moving into new quarters unless it was their idea—the food’s better across the street, she’s tired of the household dog bossing her around, or the new baby has edged him out of the prime spot as top cat?

Most of us have moved and the experience can be rather daunting when there are animals involved. Cats, especially, like things to stay the same. Oh, they thrill at something new to play with, but don’t make too many changes or they’re liable to revolt.

What are some of the hazards of moving with cats? Cats find their way out of the new house and try to go back to the old one. It’s not uncommon for cats to get out and become confused and lost in a new neighborhood. Cats have been known to escape from the car during the trip to the new place. A cat might show his opinion of the move by engaging in naughty behavior. Can you see that the primary problem at play here is generally stress? The cat is confused, afraid, nervous.

A friend of mind recently moved with her two cats. Knowing that it might upset them, she Mouse1 (2)spoke to her vet and he suggested she use a Feliway plug-in mist or spray to help calm the cats. She said, “The night before we moved our two tuxedos, we plugged in the misting Feliway in the room where they would be staying for the move. We also recommend spraying the baseboards a few times with Feliway spray.” She said she likes to spray a squirt into their carriers before the move, as well.

She has moved before and she’s learned it’s wise to have a room ready for the cats to hang out in the new place before moving them. They move in their kitty condo, beds, and some of their favorite toys, then spray a little Bliss Mist (a catnip spray) before moving the cats in. They recommend bringing the cats last, once everything else has been delivered. My friend said her two cats were pretty content with the move this time, which also makes the move more pleasant for the humans. This is her cat, Mouse, checking out the new neighborhood.

If your cats are accustomed to going outside, keep them in the new house for a week or until they seem to be relaxed in their new surroundings. By the way, don’t forget to check that the windows and screens in the new place are secure. For the first several times your cat goes outside, you should accompany him. Use a leash as an added safety measure. Walk with him as he explores the new yard.

Here are some sites that might help you make your next move smooth for your cat.

http://pets.webmd.com/cats/guide/moving-new-home-cat

http://www.catbehaviorassociates.com/moving-to-a-new-home-with-your-cat/

http://www.wikihow.com/Move-with-a-Cat

 

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Mindful Monday—Is Your Cat a Water Baby?

Cats don't like water.

Cats don’t like water.

Our cat sitters have told us that Lily has a drinking problem. She drinks a lot of water and has since she was a wee kitten. There’s a reason for this—she has kidney disease. She’s being treated through her diet and so far, according to the frequent testing, she’s holding her own.

Lily also has a fascination for water and likes to play in it. She doesn’t even mind getting a few sprinkles on her face while drinking out of the faucet, her water fountain, my glass of water, her water bowls, or any other vessel of water she happens upon. Obviously, the well-known premise that cats hate water doesn’t apply to Lily.

Our white odd-eye cat, Winfield was addicted to water, as well. He didn’t drink as much as

Lily does, but he’d play in it. We finally had to buy heavy pottery water bowls that he

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couldn’t tip over. He’d still move them around, though because he couldn’t keep his paws out of the water. He actually used his paw to drink. He’d dip his paw into the water and lick the water off. Then dip it again and lick it, until he’d had his fill of water.

It’s not uncommon for wild cats to make friends with bodies of water—go swimming in a pond, for example, or simply cool off in a puddle or a lake. The Asian fishing cat is known to be a skilled swimmer. He even has webbed paws and most of them are adept at catching their meals in the water—hence their name—fishing cat.

Domestic cats bred from wild strains of wild cats also tend to gravitate toward water—the Bengal (from the Asian leopard cat), the Savannah (from the African serval), and the Chausie (from the Asian jungle cat), for example. The Maine coon and the Norwegian forest cat are also known to like water, as does the Turkish van—known as the swimming cat.

Who knows, the next kitten or cat you adopt just might be a water baby if you don’t force him into a bath or spray him with water as punishment. That might discourage him from enjoying a dip or a squirt.

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Frivolous Friday—Hug Your Cat!

Alyzay and LilyTomorrow is National Hug Your Cat Day. Whether you have a cat of your own or six, a favorite cat belonging to someone else (a grand-cat, for example), or there are sweet neighborhood cats roaming free through your yard, this weekend is a good time to give them a little extra affection.

Sophie and Lily will certainly be lavished with extra petting and lap-time. But then that describes every day in their sweet lives.

Will you do something special for a cat you know today? Tell us about it.

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Thoughts for Thursday—Why Should You Groom Your Cat?

LilyLickingCats are thought by most to be the most fastidious species in the animal kingdom. Sure, some people use terms such as, “mangy cat,” “filthy beast,” but in reality, cats spend around half their awake time cleaning themselves. And the reasons are many.

Cleanliness is important for cats in the wilds. If a cat leaves the scent of food on his whiskers after a good meal, for example, he can be more easily detected by hungry predators. And we all know how closely related our house cats are to those in the wild. We see their wild ancestors in our kittys’ play, while hunting, and in other cat habits. One of those habits is a lot of licking. And that licking serves vital purposes for the cat. It helps to remove dead fur from the cat’s coat, increases circulation, and controls body temperature.

Is it necessary to help your cat with his grooming routine? I maintain that it’s an important habit to adopt.

I used to have horses. While horses need more than a little help with grooming for their IMG_0592health and comfort, the process of grooming is also a good way to bond with a horse and gentle him. Isn’t this an important concept for your cat, as well?

By using a comb or brush on your cat—even by running your hand over her fur at least a few times a week—you can detect any suspicious lumps, skin problems, sores, or mats (tangled fur). Long-haired cats often need human intervention in order to keep their fur tangle-free, thus keep the cat more comfortable. Inside cats need their nails trimmed on a regular basis. It’s important to check a cat’s ears for dirt, mites or other potential problems. A dull, lifeless coat might indicate a cat with a health issue. Sometimes the signals are subtle at first. But we can thwart a more serious problem if we are tuned into our cat and notice the early signs of illness.

By the way, a cat who does not spend much time grooming, is probably a cat who is not feeling well. Likewise, if a cat continues to lick excessively in one area, this could be an indication of a problem brewing.

Once I noticed our Himalayan licking one paw over and over. When I checked, I found that the dew claw had started to grow into the pad. If I’d been more diligent in checking those furry paws of hers, I would have caught the problem before it began to cause her pain.

LilyParadeAlyzay 061My Persian swallowed a needle once and it became stuck sideways in her throat. She loved sitting with me when I sewed and she must have been sitting too close to the pin cushion that day. We figure that when she licked her gorgeous shaded silver fur, she must have caught the thread from the needle on her tongue, couldn’t shake it loose and ended up swallowing it, needle and all. Thankfully I noticed the odd protrusion on both sides of her throat—still not knowing what it was or what had happened—and the vet was able to successfully and quickly remove it.

If you typically enjoy your cats from a distance, maybe it’s time for a change. Pet them all over regularly. Comb or brush their fur, examine their paws, ears, mouth and, yes, you should take a peek at the other end, as well. You might see signs of worms or swelling. Even if you don’t find any issues with your cat, the bonding that takes place is worth the time spent.

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Wild and Sometimes Crazy Wednesday—The Many Shades of Lily

birdsmoms-004I’ve photographed Lily hundreds of times. I’d recently become enthralled with photography when we adopted her and  what better subject than a kitten?

When I share my photos, friends will ask, “Is

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Lily

this the same kitty? She looks a different color.” And they’re right. Lily and FriendSometimes Lily’s coat is dark and rich, other times it’s a soft mix of greys. In some photos you can see the mix of tangerine in her fur, other times not so much. I guess it’s the lighting. While Max, Katie, Dinah, Winfield, and Sophie were always recognizable in my photos, Lily seems to be a cat of many colors.Cover 1-1 copy

The book cover photo was taken by Ruth Miller.

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