{"id":5185,"date":"2021-08-30T03:55:21","date_gmt":"2021-08-30T11:55:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/?p=5185"},"modified":"2021-08-30T03:55:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T11:55:21","slug":"mindful-monday-rainbow-bridge-remembrance-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/?p=5185","title":{"rendered":"Mindful Monday \u2013 Rainbow Bridge Remembrance Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-2185\" src=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lilyeyes1-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lilyeyes1-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lilyeyes1-500x375.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lilyeyes1.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>We missed Rainbow Bridge Remembrance Day\u2014the day dedicated to remembering our pets that have gone over the Rainbow Bridge. Remembrance Day was Saturday\u2014August 28 this year, but if you\u2019re like most adoring pet owners, a day doesn\u2019t go by that you don\u2019t think about a special cat or dog you\u2019ve lost. Lily, who died of kidney disease way too young, left us last year\u2014amidst what we thought was the worst of the<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-889\" src=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Lily-001-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Lily-001-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Lily-001-500x375.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/> pandemic. I think about her often and those memories make me smile, miss her, want to honor her, tear up a little, or laugh out loud remembering some of her sweet antics.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-660\" src=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/LilyApril2010-005-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/LilyApril2010-005-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/LilyApril2010-005-375x500.jpg 375w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/LilyApril2010-005.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/>I also often think about our Himalayan, Katy; the silver-shaded Persian I had years ago, Crystal; our wonderful odd-eye white cat, Winfield; the kitten we found in our woodpile that year on my birthday, and who was with us for 17 years, Max;<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-400\" src=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/pg-8-katie-eyes-300x212.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"212\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/pg-8-katie-eyes-300x212.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/pg-8-katie-eyes.jpg 450w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/> and so many others that I loved and lost. Is that the point of Rainbow Bridge Remembrance Day? Yes, it is to remember those pets and to honor the lives that they lived. How?<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_437\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-437\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-437\" src=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/daisy.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"230\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-437\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Daisy<\/p><\/div>\n<p>1: Reminisce, of course. We do that often throughout the year, asking each other, \u201cDo you remember when Lily\u2026?\u201d Sweet memories.<\/p>\n<p>2: Look at pictures. I have a treasure trove of photos of Lily. You see them posted here often. One of my daughters also put together a book of Lily\u2019s photos which I\u2019ve turned into a coffee table book and I look at it often, despite the scratch across the cover where Olivia dug in her claws when she was<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_157\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-157\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-157\" src=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/cats-in-clouds1-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/cats-in-clouds1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/cats-in-clouds1-500x334.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/cats-in-clouds1.jpg 1186w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-157\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Heavenly Cats<\/p><\/div>\n<p>a kitten. Awww, she was probably just trying to open the book so she could get to know Lily.<\/p>\n<p>3: Donate to a local animal-related organization. When I donate, it is often with Lily or Max or Winfield or Katy, etc. in mind.<\/p>\n<p>4: Plant something. A living memorial is always a lovely reminder of a special pet.<\/p>\n<p>5: Create something in the pet\u2019s memory. I have a friend who does pencil drawings of pets. What a treasure to keep. It\u2019s easy to frame a photo to keep. I also have a necklace created by a famous artist with Lily\u2019s photo in it. I wore it on Rainbow Bridge Remembrance Day this year. Display your pet\u2019s favorite toy\u2014retire it to exhibit status.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sure you have your own ideas and rituals related to the very special pets you\u2019ve lost. I\u2019d like to hear about them. Post here or send me the story at <a href=\"mailto:PLFry620@yahoo.com\">PLFry620@yahoo.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>For me, Olivia is a gift from Lily\u2014I like to think Lily met Olivia on the other side of the Bridge and told her about me and asked her to comfort me. Likewise, I hope that Lily has found comfort and the love she deserves wherever she is. Here come the tears\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We missed Rainbow Bridge Remembrance Day\u2014the day dedicated to remembering our pets that have gone over the Rainbow Bridge. 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