{"id":2653,"date":"2018-05-03T02:49:30","date_gmt":"2018-05-03T10:49:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/?p=2653"},"modified":"2018-05-03T02:49:30","modified_gmt":"2018-05-03T10:49:30","slug":"thoughts-for-thursday-can-you-turn-your-shy-cat-friendly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/?p=2653","title":{"rendered":"Thoughts for Thursday \u2013 Can You Turn Your Shy Cat Friendly"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-2046\" src=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/stanley-221x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"221\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/stanley-221x300.jpeg 221w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/stanley-369x500.jpeg 369w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/stanley.jpeg 597w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 221px) 100vw, 221px\" \/>Cats and kittens that haven\u2019t been handled much tend to be a bit shy. They might make up to one or two people after a lot of exposure to loving gestures, but they may continue to shun others. Anyone who has adopted feral and formerly feral cats and those who\u2019ve had little human contact during their formative weeks, have probably experienced the hidey cat.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve had several cats who run for cover under the bed or blankets upon hearing the doorbell or footsteps on the porch. One of my daughters asked me once if I really did have a cat or was he imaginary because she had never seen anything of the cat except a streak of fur dashing off as she\u2019d enter my house.<\/p>\n<p>You might wonder if your staunch hidey cat will ever become cordial. I\u2019ve seen it happen<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-2065\" src=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/IMG_0583-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/IMG_0583-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/IMG_0583-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/IMG_0583-500x375.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/> three times. Katy came from a kitten-mill. While she adapted to those of us in the household quite readily, the intrusion of guests frightened her. The only people she\u2019d make up to were those who spent the night here. By morning, overnight guests were, in Katy\u2019s eyes, part of the family. She was also relaxed with close neighbors when they\u2019d come into the house. We believed that was because she recognized them and their scent through open windows over time.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1953\" src=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/lilypeek-300x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/lilypeek-300x150.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/lilypeek.jpg 492w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>As Katy aged, she seemed to forget that she was afraid of strangers or she just didn\u2019t have the energy to run and hide anymore. In fact, she\u2019d invite petting from visitors. I\u2019m so glad she got to experience the love she deserved\u2014not only from us, but others\u2014before she walked over the rainbow bridge at the age of nearly 18.<\/p>\n<p>Sophie had spent her first ten weeks living on the streets with her mother cat. When we <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-802\" src=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/photogeorge-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/photogeorge-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/photogeorge-500x375.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.matilijapress.com\/catscapades\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/photogeorge.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>brought her home, she became a hidey cat, only allowing a few random people to see her. We still can\u2019t figure out how she hand-picks them. She might hide from a cat-loving neighbor or friend and wander out to greet a delivery person or visitor who isn\u2019t at all interested in cats. At Christmas this year, we entertained 20 or so family members, including all ages of children. Once everyone had left, Sophie stepped out from under the sofa in the living room where we\u2019d congregated over the four hours or so. She\u2019d been with us the entire time, only none of us knew it.<\/p>\n<p>Lily was one of 15 kittens born to 3 mother cats eight years ago. The whole kit and caboodle of cats and kittens were kept in an attic until adoption day. So she didn\u2019t get a lot of attention, until she came to us. At the time, we had Winfield, a friendly cat and Sophie, a hidey cat. Lily could have copied either one of these models, she chose to hide with Sophie.<\/p>\n<p>Lily is also a glutton. She loves meal time and treats, and handouts. So I\u2019ve begun giving guests of all ages a couple of kitty treats for Lily and she\u2019s finally starting to greet guests rather than hide from them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cats and kittens that haven\u2019t been handled much tend to be a bit shy. They might make up to one or two people after a lot of exposure to loving gestures, but they may continue to shun others. 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